@sammicohentalks: Bumble just deleted the one rule it was built on. And one of the mainstream apps quietly growing while the others shrink? The one whose entire motto is “designed to be deleted.” The swipe apps that survive will be the ones brave enough to get you offline. Are we officially in the post-swipe era? 👇
1000 different dating apps and the girls who use bumble going into the app knew they needed to respond first. Yet still complained
2026-08-13 11:12:46
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Jedi Master Jarin Thal :
I tried bumble back in the day. When the woman reached out she did it with one emoji. That was the total effort she put into communication.
2026-08-12 15:24:22
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sabrina🪩 :
hinge is succeeding bc it doesn’t make you swipe or pay to see likes
2026-08-13 01:55:44
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Scott :
66% of the group with the best communication skills said they dont like to communicate first.
2026-08-13 03:35:53
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snarcusaurelius :
Yall don’t want to hear it, but dating apps have changed a lot. They’re doing this because women simply don’t message anymore unless he’s truly an outlier. This loses men who think they can potentially change her mind with a message (he can’t) but he’ll keep paying which is what the apps run on (thirsty hopeless men)
2026-08-12 02:53:45
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OshiFallen :
Honestly I would be for it if guys were doing more than just swiping right on everyone, and only sending a “hey” without even taking a second look at the profile before messaging
2026-08-13 03:48:08
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Honuka :
They hide potential real matches
2026-08-11 23:02:02
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Tyler :
The amount of women that had “message me first” in their bio on bumble was insane
2026-08-16 14:33:12
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smiley_face44 :
still using dating apps in 2026 is f**king stupid
2026-08-13 01:58:48
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Dog :
doesnt matter if woman had tk message first of all they said is heyyy
2026-08-13 10:43:33
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Wheoejowhqhkr :
Is hinge lying about their stats?? Have they been on hinge?!?
2026-08-12 06:10:24
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Mr E :
Bumble had a report or statement that when they messaged guys or made the first move they wouldn’t get messages back or get ignored. That is why they changed it. They want guys to make the first move because they couldn’t handle the rejection so they passed it back to men.
2026-08-13 17:56:39
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Lynai 🌵 :
Hinge was right about its motto, I deleted it out of frustration
2026-08-13 05:57:58
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4k :
all they was saying was "hi" anyway or maybe an emoji
2026-08-13 15:40:03
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Charliedotrose :
Women either just send and wave emoji or just say “Hi” if you’re lucky. Most of the time the match expires
2026-08-12 19:03:02
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user6220362368959 :
Lowkey I like hinge the most because they limit the amount of people who are waiting. So it’s either message them or unmatch. So it drives conversation. Also its wayy or active for both genders
2026-08-12 17:50:29
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wutisitnow :
The amount of women I’ve LIKED back after they liked me who just let it expire is astronomical. Don’t like me first if you’re not gonna follow up.
2026-08-13 15:44:20
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GrayDay00 :
They really couldn’t even be bothered to do this ONE small thing.
2026-08-23 23:00:24
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hvymtlrlz87 :
definitely more than half of matches expire because they never would message first. 66% sounds about right
2026-08-13 15:59:11
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Q :
Aren’t all these apps owned by match
2026-08-14 06:52:13
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KyngKappa :
Bumble was the worst, women say “stop sending “hey (insert name) and then you get on bumble and they all start convos with “👋”
2026-08-13 15:50:16
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pacmanisokay :
“👋” was always the message and it was dumb. I actually liked when I heard girls have to message first until every girl sent the same waving emoji
2026-08-17 01:39:16
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Chokka 🦧 :
I remember the good old days of Bumble where women got to message first and 4/5 openers were "."
2026-09-21 14:03:57
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hokageveah :
People who use dating apps to find love need to take a class on how to approach the opposite gender
2026-08-12 22:04:47
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mt24142 :
Except hinge does the same exact thing but with different promotion
2026-08-13 20:03:10
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