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Phoeberia :
like getting a report card after every conversation..
2026-08-13 02:33:08
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StephenReola :
You can’t out communicate incompatibility.
2026-08-13 04:44:41
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Nanner2286 :
As a therapist, I am constantly talking about the difference between someone doing wrong to you and affecting the relationship vs character traits that you just find annoying or is different than you/can’t relate to. So what happens if people give feedback that is literally just insults to that persons character and things they can’t change. Nothing wrong with deciding you aren’t feeling it with someone but doesn’t mean that person needs to hear those specific critiques that are subjective and truly just hurt someone’s feelings
2026-08-13 12:14:54
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🧄🧄🧄 :
It’s like religion. People don’t get it’s for them to internalize not to use to control others
2026-08-13 00:55:15
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brian :
i like to say that therapy helps you decide what to do as an actor in your life, not discuss with other people
2026-08-12 19:19:16
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daniel :
Sometimes you gotta just glaze your eyes over and enjoy life
2026-08-12 23:53:26
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Kyranekko :
Lmao this is why we need therapists that specialise in OCD
2026-08-13 19:05:53
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madex :
I love evaluations in my friendships… but when it becomes a daily or weekly thing then we just aren’t meant to be and that’s ok! Not everyone is compatible but to put someone thru a daily or weekly multiple paragraph critique is genuinely unfair in a humanitarian perspective— this isn’t a power dynamic, you aren’t my boss or my parent, I don’t need to wake up to paragraphs everyday of how “evil” I am just because we had a joke that didn’t land. Not everyone discomfort is a capital crime.
2026-08-13 02:29:11
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Rachel 🧿 :
Some relationships are exhausting and not worth the effort, especially when it’s a difference in character and priorities.
2026-08-12 22:10:17
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perpetual.state :
I had to end a friendship because of this because they were so therapized and social media driven when I tried to have an actual constructive conversation with them they shut me down with therapized language…they blinked and I was gone out of their lives #imnotdoingthat😂😂😂
2026-08-13 17:20:20
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oopygoopy :
And constantly feeling on guard because you could always say something wrong
2026-08-13 21:14:17
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Brennen Beckwith :
not everything needs to be fixed
2026-08-13 07:45:22
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AgeOfPhoenix :
Not everything is a trauma response. Not everything needs to be psychoanalysis. And what you discuss with your therapist does not apply to other people
2026-08-13 07:48:30
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Jules Anna 🌸 :
As a couples therapist this is true. You should 100% be able to talk about the relationship, but you shouldn’t be talking about the relationship 100% of the time
2026-08-13 15:45:48
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.... :
I think this is a fair take. There’s nothing wrong with bringing up problems in a relationship but if you’re constantly seeing issues in a relationship then maybe you just aren’t compatible.
2026-08-13 11:55:13
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SaltyCoffee :
People who ruminate constantly. Not every conversation has to be analyzed with a fine tooth comb. Sometimes the answer is simple (people suck) and you need to move on.
2026-08-13 20:53:50
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Elleigha⛓️💥🖤 :
Feeling like you’re being graded on everything you do is exhausting. Heavy on you’re not wrong but I’m my own person and if you don’t like every fundamental thing about me, it’s okay to not be my friend
2026-08-13 08:40:14
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ethel_cains :
Like I don’t need a guidance counselor!!!!
2026-08-13 17:50:09
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ThaDevilsJester :
I’m currently in school to become a therapist. He’s 1000% right. It’s not necessary to analyze everyone all the time about everything and point things out. Just vibe, fam. Be a people too.
2026-08-13 09:49:35
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Holly Sipe :
Sometimes it’s hard for people to do the self work and they make therapy about how people are treating them instead of looking inward.
2026-08-13 09:03:18
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Mads :
more people need to learn that you don't have to be besties with everyone just to be kind
2026-08-13 01:59:38
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beakles :
i learned this in college. why am i friends with a group of girls that i have to have sit down talks with every week? i’d rather just be lonely
2026-08-13 23:34:56
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riss :
Grace is also very important!
2026-08-13 04:21:13
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María :
I love that he said that you're not wrong that's considerate
2026-08-13 05:16:49
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1000smilesperhour :
Like sorry I don’t like being picked on for every little thing?
2026-08-13 22:24:28
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