Girl just starting with African American girl in Alabama dear god.
2026-08-12 23:52:01
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ShiftCraft :
I’m a Black woman from TN. Same experience. I knew at 10 that I’d never have children. I never did l and I have no regrets. The key is I HAD to leave TN. I ended up getting a great education, making lots of money and living all over the country. I’m now 50 and retired. I’m a multimillionaire and I now live all over the world. It’s only possible bc 1) I left the South and 2) I never had kids. A beautiful life can be built but you have to question every script. Keep climbing sweet girl! 🫶🏾❤️
2026-08-13 00:36:01
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Mae :
Thank you for the work you do.
2026-08-12 23:47:29
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Ayan Said389 :
im a black muslim woman and im cf asf and alot of women fear being social ostracized so they have kids for social validation even though they have no interest in being a mom.
2026-08-13 02:16:43
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AndreiaO :
Your page is amazing!
2026-08-13 00:25:11
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DDelphii :
this is why TikTok is helping women so much in so many different ways. Thank you so much for your Paige and thank you to the young woman who wrote in.
2026-08-14 13:41:30
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Kt Kreimer Mansfield :
“keep questioning” is the best advice we can give young women. To the young women who posted this, you don’t need anyone’s permission to live life on your own terms and it seems you’re ahead of the curve on figuring that out, keep at it.
2026-08-13 00:24:53
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Just Some Person in the World :
As a young African American woman in Alabama, she already has enough of a fight on her hands. She needs to know how smart she is for using her observational skills to know she doesn’t want kids. Proud of her for choosing herself 💜
2026-08-13 07:45:07
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Cynthia :
I have my sterilization consult on Aug 24, im so excited and so nervous
2026-08-15 17:37:25
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C :
I went back and forth in my late teens early 20’s because it was what you were supposed to do. I came from a single parent home, dad left the country when I was 2 to avoid child support. Then my grandma did my genealogy. I was the next gen to have twins on BOTH sides of my family. Hearing that was an immediate no, which I was already leaning that direction. By 26 I asked for tubes to be removed and the doctors kept telling me no. After being on BC for 21 years, found a GP and OB that agreed, it’s my body and my decision. The tubes were removed when I was 36 and I do not regret it. I’ll be 43 this year and have been a widow for 21 months.
2026-08-13 00:46:14
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Niza_ray :
I think its also important to plan that if you meet someone, you do NOT change your mind. Sometimes love can cloud our judgement and the pain of those choices don’t always show up immediately 💜
2026-08-13 20:16:42
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Dr. Brandi :
Keep questioning every script! Wonderfully stated! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
2026-08-13 14:37:42
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Stephanie Marie🎀 :
She is showing maturity at such a young age. But she is also saying it out load and I feel a lot of woman cannot out loud say they don’t want children. Proud of her.
2026-08-12 23:49:56
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sannasthm :
I always knew i dont want children, i never had the urge for, i like them tho. I am very glad society finally acknowledge the fact that there are women who just dont want to
2026-08-13 01:24:52
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codename_seawitch :
I’m so proud her!! To be so young and aware, mindful is wonderful.
2026-08-13 15:39:00
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namenone318 :
Kelly we all deeply appreciate the work to do on this page. Holding these stories and delivering them gracefully is no small task. I’d imagine some are triggering or difficult yet you deliver anyway and we appreciate that.
2026-08-18 18:16:01
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PamelaAnn :
my niece is a wonderful aunt but as her aunt I am grateful she knew herself well enough not to have her own
2026-08-13 13:25:46
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V.B. Wonder :
What a wise young lady
2026-08-14 18:33:41
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Maxie :
This is why I keep sticking around on this terrible app. It has several positive platforms to help balance the ones that I wish would disappear.
2026-08-16 15:55:00
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KM :
I am 37f and married to 50m for 13 years (together for 20). We are child free by choice and I am grateful that pages like this exist now. I wish they had existed when I was 18. That being said I am a Mental Health Therapist for kids. I love my job so much... I am also grateful it's a regular reminder of why I had my fallopian tubes removed last year.
2026-08-14 21:20:49
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💗Beyond the mind💞✨️ :
You are a the best thing that has happened to me in this life.
If it were not for you, I would be stuck in this mindset that my only purpose is being a mom
2026-08-14 04:33:16
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Apoth1cru5h :
Every video I see like this, I send to my daughter. On purpose.
2026-08-16 07:37:18
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nv.hm4 :
Wise young lady
2026-08-28 11:48:32
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Barbara Mitchell :
Thank you Kelly for posting this! This woman is inspiring choosing herself first!
2026-08-17 12:50:06
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A Lynn 💚🇦🇺 :
To have such perspective at only 18 is amazing, it took me well into my 20s to see it this way. That's why this content is so important, every young woman needs to know she CAN choose differently 💗
2026-08-29 01:06:03
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