@chrisvolcy: “why do men ruin your birthday?” 🤦🏾‍♀️ #toxicmasculinity #blackgirltiktok🤎 #breakupstory #interracialrelationship #breakups

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acid.rice
Bee :
My ex burst out laughing in the front row of my fathers VERY sudden funeral bc the man giving the service was a deeply southern black pastor who did live up to the stereotypes, but who was a dear friend of my father who helped lead my father toward his religious experience. Everything about my ex laughing gave me the ick. For so many reasons
2026-08-12 12:42:47
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the.tomi.take
The Tomi Take :
From pet to threat relationship version!! A man that would ruin your birthday will ruin your life !
2026-08-12 00:45:46
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kiralena09
Kira :
At the end of the day , men will never miss an opportunity to a humble an amazing woman. It’s a power thing.
2026-08-12 12:22:20
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bambadamn
Bambadamn :
I always think about Christina Yang and Owen Hunt in these situations 😭
2026-08-12 16:22:58
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hudsontaylorgems
Hudson Taylor Gems :
Ive seen my best friends husband ruin her bday for the past 7 years. When she caught on, he started the fights a week before 🫠
2026-08-12 13:59:07
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mberbrianna
amber ☽ :
My first boyfriend ruined my HS graduation AND my prom night. My prom night literally ended with us both and tears. And he would start an argument every time I would go on vacations w o him. I told him he was a ruiner and if my happiness didn’t revolve around him he would ruin it.
2026-08-12 14:15:09
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_alexmac_
_AlexMac_ :
I didn’t need an essay to kno that man hated me 😅
2026-08-12 13:59:38
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emaculategirl
emaculategirl :
My ex ignored me on my birthday because I had taken the pre-paid trip i made before i met him. 4 days later I called him and he yelled at me for taking the trip and never once wished me a happy birthday
2026-08-13 15:10:02
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killawells01
Jack-of-all-trades :
like that lady running the marathon and he pops the question during the race??? or a different runner gets her kids thrown infront of her by her husband right before her finish
2026-08-12 17:54:40
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geedubyadee50
Glenda :
It seems that men do this when they can't be the center of attention and/ or you've achieved something more than they've ever done.
2026-08-12 15:13:47
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yokoagainagain
Yokoagainagain :
He got mad at YOU???
2026-08-12 16:26:25
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pachamama2025
pachamama2025 :
If it happens once, leave him. It’s a huge red flag!
2026-08-12 06:16:53
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ravyn.007
Ravyn007 :
As soon as you said “2016”, I knew what was coming next!
2026-08-12 15:30:21
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garbagecanhan
TrashCanHan :
My ex started a massive hours long argument the night before I took my first section of the CPA exam, knowing I wanted to go to sleep early that night. Still passed though and ditched the dude soon after 💅🏼
2026-08-13 03:03:14
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auntie_kiala
Auntie_Kiala :
My ex hid my passport, so I couldn't book a trip to Germany with my sister for my bday. My lodging was going to be free and I was only going to have to pay half the cost of my plane ticket.... I went to New Orleans instead, and found it in his belongings a few days after I got back
2026-08-12 16:13:54
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misskitty302
MissKitty :
Because they hate you
2026-08-12 15:57:00
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ceefright
CeeFright :
I broke up with my ex two months before college graduation. I asked for my blender back for weeks. When did he return it? When I was taking pics with my family for graduation day. I had to hold my brother back 😂
2026-08-12 16:54:56
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thedemibrat
An Author By Many Names :
Why do men always HAVE TO?
2026-08-12 14:34:22
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gnostic055
Gnostic :
My now ex-husband called his side thing on my birthday several years ago when my kids were young (thankfully). He didn’t know the kids were listening. He called my plans (same one EVERY year) “dramatic” and “last minute”. I took his money on his credit card and took my kids out to celebrate my birthday. When men do this, you dump them. Periodt.
2026-08-12 01:26:32
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ayatinac
Ayatina :
We need to redefine love. Love is a choice! We can pick better.
2026-08-12 13:06:18
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22ryanw22
Ryan W :
My ex ruined my last Halloween at college (Halloween is my favorite holiday and I feel Halloween college parties are fairly monumental) and the the next month my birthday/Thanksgiving (my birthday is days away from Thanksgiving) so I’m very glad I don’t have to deal with that manipulative bum anymore
2026-08-12 16:23:17
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beyondd_beautiful
Maya🌹♌️🔥 :
It wasn’t love. Love doesn’t do that.
2026-08-12 13:35:05
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rantswithfant
Fanta :
Your makeup looks amazeee
2026-08-12 10:59:21
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_goddesslocs
_goddesslocs :
So it wasn’t just mine 😅
2026-08-12 12:16:16
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