@jaalahudson: shout out to all the top shelf girlies if u get it then u get it if you don’t then you’re just not top shelf 😂😂😂😂 I be yapping but I’m so dead serious #fyp

Dr. Debbie :

Discernment is so key cus men will mask themselves as the perfect man after studying you and your social media but the mask will eventually slip.

Jah :

It be so lonely lol, like idk if I’m being picky or what

🩷 :

not even trying to toot my own horn or anything but everyone assumes you have so many options (which technically you do, but they aren’t QUALITY options) but in reality it is actually very lonely. you have to be prepared to be disappointed.

Alyssa Makayla🥰 :

Literally. I’ve accepted they just want to see if they can get my attention and/or conversation out of me. It’s lonely fr but I’m tired of getting played with.

smexy.maiya :

Yes and my downfall be accepting certain (lowering standards) things so I won’t come off as “wanting” too much. But the reality is men never do this so why should I

Jhonni_Fire :

Yes, this man I was attracted to told me he thought I was already taken because I take such great care of myself—it’s really lonely at the top 😭

cai :

Wait why do I feel like I go through the same thing 😩 I think that on social media, I can come across as intimidating or unapproachable which feels like a good/bad thing sometimes. It feels like the ones who are way below your standards are the only ones who approach for real.

faith 🥰 :

it’s also hard because when you have your own everything and lead with independence, a lot of men don’t try or put effort because they “feel” like you already have it together. it’s hard but discernment is key🤞🏾

Dariona Wilson :

After I broke up with my ex everytime a guy approaches me now and they say they wanna see me and get to know me I tell them to plan a date and it’s honestly saved me so much time and energy

CLove✨🤍 :

Very truthful we are also very intimidating to most men! MY FATHER IN HEAVENS STANDARDS ARE HIGH WHY WOULDNT MY STANDARDS BE HIGH! I literally see them admire me often but never approach because I demand excellence, betterment of self daily and true Godliness. Later see them with the low standard types😂🤍 is rather be lonely than having none of my needs met and settling like most the world.

Indeea.CBFW 💋 :

“A weak man can’t do shit with you!” … then he proceeded to be weak 😌🤦🏾‍♀️😭😂

ali🤎💌 :

it really becomes quality over quantity

just_athoughtofmine :

I let a man access me who ran me down for years and I regret it so bad smh.

saoudah 🖤 :

3 years abstinent

miyaaakalonnn :

this is literally my life

ParisLondon🍵🎀🌿 :

finally found my people ☺️🙌🏽

mlke__ :

Quality over quantity

genesisalayahh :

cassidyccx :

Video and comment section making me feel very seen rn 🥺❤️‍🩹

cassi.kai :

Story of my life it feels isolating

Avrie Symone :

Yessss! You worded this perfectly

Marietta Lash Artist :

are you in my brain sista??🙂‍↔️you spoke straight facts

T 𝜗𝜚 :

exactlyyyy

Jay🫶🏾💕 :

My FYP just won’t turn me loose 😂

A🖤 :

This!