@gary_teroller: 8 years & 15 cafes/restaurants later & we are still very happily married @CLAIRE SHARRYN ROBERTO life & work with my wife is a gift that I never thought was a possibility. When you can choose to spend more time with the love of your life, why would you not choose that option? And frankly building a business fuelled by passion with your best friend that has the same vision as you is my form of winning.