@loudthoughtsforyou: A broken man may genuinely love you and still hurt you deeply. His past can make closeness feel dangerous, consistency feel suspicious, and real love feel like something he must escape. You may see the good beneath his wounds and believe your patience can save him. But even the safest love cannot heal someone who refuses to face their pain. His wounds may explain his behaviour, but they do not excuse the damage. Healing is a decision only he can make. You can love him, but never at the cost of losing yourself while waiting for him to change. #realtalk #Relationship #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalHealing #SelfWorth