@coachblessing25: FOR BETTER OR WORSE… BUT WHO GETS THE WORSE? The man enjoys the better part, while the woman is left to carry the worse. And I’m not talking about saying that a man should never enjoy himself. That is not the point. I’m talking about what happens when there is not enough to go around. Some men will make sure they are comfortable first. They will eat what they want, spend what they want, enjoy themselves with their friends, or even spend money outside the home. Then they come home and give the woman whatever is left and say, “This is what I have. Manage it.” And who is expected to manage it? The woman. Who is expected to understand? The woman. Who is expected to sacrifice? The woman. Who is expected to tolerate his bad behavior, his disrespect, his poor choices, his excesses, and the hard parts of the marriage? Again, the woman. But when things are good, he enjoys the comfort of the marriage. He enjoys her care. He enjoys her support. He enjoys the home. He enjoys the peace she creates. So when we say “for better or worse,” we need to ask ourselves: Why does the “better” so often belong to him, while the “worse” becomes something the woman is expected to tolerate? The worse should not mean a woman must tolerate nonsense. It should mean that when life becomes difficult, both people are willing to sacrifice, adjust, and carry the burden together. Marriage should not mean one person gets to enjoy the better while the other is trained to endure the worse. #creatorsearchinsight #MarriageReality #WomenAndMarriage #HealthyMarriage #RelationshipAdvice

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