@coach_bridgetb: Teachers are often the first outside observers to notice concerning patterns in a high-conflict custody situation. Their observations are documentable — if you capture them correctly. The rule: convert every verbal observation from a teacher into a written record within 24 hours. Email the teacher back summarizing what they told you and asking them to confirm your understanding. Their response becomes the evidence. Do that across a school year, and you have a pattern of independent third-party observations — the kind of evidence family courts weight heavily. PatternViewer is the tool I recommend for laying these observations out chronologically alongside the incidents at home. Because the pattern is what tells the story, not any single observation. Link in bio, tell them I sent you. #teacherobservations #patternofbehavior #custodydocumentation #protectiveparent #breakingbadasscoaching