@thehealingcleric: The avoidant discard got you sad? Good. Now get off the couch. Not to heal for them. Not to glow up for them. Not to prove you’re doing better. Get up and go out there out of spite. Go have the drink. Take the trip. Hit the gym. See your friends. Laugh until your face hurts. You don’t have to feel amazing yet. You just have to refuse to let someone who discarded you become the reason you stop living. Spite is a wonderful tool. Use it to get moving. Don’t let them win. #AvoidantAttachment #BreakupRecovery #NoContact #HealingJourney #SelfWorth