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Madeleine :
Yes!! If you see yourself as kind, caring, helpful, compassionate, or morally good, you can feel this pressure to constantly act in accordance with that identity, even when it comes at the expense of your own needs. Other people aren’t always going to be as considerate or respectful of your boundaries, either. I’ve been trying to untangle myself from this for years: I can hold so much space for other people’s boundaries, mistakes, and humanity, but struggle to extend that same grace to myself. I think it comes back to this deep-rooted identity of needing to be “good”
2026-08-13 22:28:43
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nina :
I’ve been a silent follower for a while but I loveddd this quote and this video so much I had to comment. Also, your hair looks so good!!
2026-08-12 15:54:54
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Rohit Kalwani :
You are so enlightened and wise🥹
2026-08-12 15:43:44
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Sheila :
This sounds like internal family systems, a therapeutic approach to accepting all the parts of you, like they’re different members of your family 🥰
2026-08-14 03:18:19
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Caroline :
I struggle with exactly this!! Its so tough, you have to live according to your own moral code and what matters to just you, and that allows for an inner peace and direction but then what happens when a part of you doesnt align with that code, and is something you dont like? so much inner conflict. then the judgement, I also define myself by the negative sides. but we are nuanced, we must try and see the positive sides too! You are so lovely, such a breath of fresh air- so so so many positives! Dont forget it!
2026-08-14 04:05:43
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dont.be.vain :
You cracked the code love💗. This was very encouraging.
2026-08-12 18:16:50
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thelivingboard :
Different spaces and seasons call forward different sides of us, and the best part of growth is leaving room for every layer as it unfolds. ✨
2026-08-19 17:56:01
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peterisalot :
We def try so hard to be morally correct that we can’t accept ourselves for sure
2026-08-13 20:55:39
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user123456789011 :
"It is always a projection" girl this took me 50 years. You are so advanced lol
2026-08-12 20:23:21
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grace 🥸 :
Loved this thank you
2026-08-12 19:22:09
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Keisha :
I love this!
2026-08-12 14:44:18
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morecheeseplsss :
This reminds me of “shadow work” regarding accepting the “dark” or uncomfy parts of ourselves because we are only human, and finding health helpful outlets for these without simply just suppressing them 🤍
2026-08-14 06:16:43
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ridrawal :
This quote is so true! It’s hard to do it but I think it’s so worth accepting those parts of yourself. Definitely a work in progress trying to do it though 🥲
2026-08-13 07:48:38
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missgolightly :
Every video you make is a thought I’ve had that I didn’t have the words for. Duality is so hard to balance for me, especially within myself. We are all so many things ❤️
2026-08-14 19:28:19
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positivetiktok3 :
Yes I’ve recently been toiling with the idea that the bad parts of me aren’t the rights of others as well. Meaning I am a human full of contradictions, it’s not lying or wrong to not go out of my way to highlight the unfavorable parts of myself. My messy contradictions can just be for me sometimes and that’s okay 🙂
2026-08-14 01:10:22
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petalssforarmour :
girl, I could listen to your podcast, if you decide to start one 🩷
2026-08-14 03:15:09
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j :
Ughhh I needed this! So wondefully said
2026-08-12 21:24:07
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emma :
This is so accurate for me you have no idea
2026-08-12 23:27:26
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meet.rickyy :
right there with you!!! it can feel so easy to give grace to others, because we know how hard it is to be human and complete and yet to offer the grace back feels weird? replacing our internal system and most importantly practicing in action, allow us to dismantle the narrative we craft ourself in.
2026-08-17 21:26:13
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Sunshine :
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2026-08-17 18:03:50
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shubhiu :
this resonates with me so deeply 🥹🥹
2026-08-15 18:56:05
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julessmichelle :
I resonate with this perspective heavy, accepting your human-ness isn’t easy 🫣
2026-08-15 11:38:24
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Sid :
💗
2026-08-14 15:39:14
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juliapettigrew821 :
this was a really beautiful reflection
2026-08-14 08:32:21
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teia :
well said, thank you for this reminder ! 💚
2026-08-12 22:57:14
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