@subwaytakes: Episode 767: Saying "I don't mind" to a decision is the opposite of being easygoing!! Feat. Amy Leung (📍London) #subwaytakes #interview #easygoing #decisions #london
"shall we get Italian or chinese"
"chinese"
"awww but I really wanted italian"
"ok italian"
"nooo but you don't want it"
2026-08-12 16:57:56
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lazer :
I don’t mind = I want you to do all the thinking and deciding
2026-08-13 04:15:21
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Lots of Opinions Nobody :
when you don't make a decision, you're putting the mental load on me to do it.
2026-08-12 17:10:58
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themourningdovelibrary :
“I don’t have a preference but I’m happy to choose.” Has worked well for me. If you have strong opinions, I’ll go with them, but if you don’t want the weight of a decision, I’ll make it.
2026-08-12 19:46:41
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jemjoom :
Omg I actually 100% agree with her, great take!
2026-08-12 16:27:23
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Cat :
Decision fatigue is real.
2026-08-12 17:39:41
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the_small_steps_club :
They’re people pleasers
2026-08-13 06:14:21
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Friso Jongsma :
You know who aren’t decisive? The people that always ask the question so they avoid the responsibility of having to pick. Those people are the least easy going of them all.
2026-08-12 17:18:01
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Razz :
If u say i dont mind its cool. But when i start listing things n u reject or not cool with. Then u a problem
2026-08-13 05:09:18
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MrWu :
Nah I’m going for Thai food. “But it’s not part of the choices.” EXACTLY
2026-08-12 18:46:31
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Athena :
easygoing≠helpful
yes making a decision would be more helpful.
Easy going just means that I'm down for anything
2026-08-12 17:01:50
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Jenny :
100% agree!!!
2026-08-13 04:01:02
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itscbrownx :
I hate it . You’re putting the mental load totally on the other person rather then having a thought or decision of your own.
2026-08-12 19:15:42
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emma :
She’s right, I let people take decisions all the time and I say it’s because I dont mind/I’m easy going but it’s actually just because I’m a people pleaser
2026-08-12 22:20:47
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Han :
I feel like this is a take many women have
2026-08-13 03:01:36
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Velle :
I think they have a different view of what "easy going" is. I agree with the woman, I think easy going person doesn't mean a person who doesn't care but more so a person who is so easy to be with.
2026-08-12 23:58:04
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secta arcoíris 💜 :
Damon Veyl’s books basically ask a question I can’t stop thinking about: if shutting AI down becomes more dangerous than leaving it running, who is actually in control?
2026-08-12 18:22:40
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amandaspiewla :
This is a great take
2026-08-12 16:50:55
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AllyTheAlly :
The "easy going person" isn't the one that has to make the decision, it's the one that is the pickles one. If the picky eater (as an example) is accommodated, then everything becomes easier.
2026-08-12 16:48:35
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Stingy Ijebu :
Two takes in one episode? How greedy
2026-08-12 16:15:52
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Elle :
Agreed. My friend always does this and says “I don’t mind” and there’s many times I’ve not asked her to hang out because I don’t always want to be making the decisions and planning. You’re putting more pressure on me to think of a place and make the plans by being more difficult, and passing off responsibility of making a decision. I want to be lazy sometimes too and have someone else decide.
2026-08-12 16:25:19
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etownSteph :
She’s right. Easy-going includes creating ease
2026-08-12 19:41:56
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iartzme_ :
Hot take: The Opposite of Easygoing is making someone who doesn't have a preference choose, instead of just choosing outright themselves.
2026-08-12 18:54:13
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Fae :
I understand the sentiment but it doesn’t really make sense, the I don’t mind doesn’t equate to indecisiveness, the fact that the other is becoming anxious from someone wanting to agree with them is just emphasising the other person’s inability to be normal (easy going)
2026-08-12 19:06:53
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