If your children are in school, you are a stay at home wife not a SAHM.
2026-08-12 22:15:17
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Modality. :
NTA. She kept bringing it up and you nipped it in the bud
2026-08-12 16:44:17
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BougieandMindful ♑️💙 :
This is a before marriage conversation…if this is what she wanted the whole time, she should have married a man that is in alignment with that and vice versa. They shouldn’t be together.
2026-08-12 18:13:22
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Yaboi :
Shes more hurt because she got denied by the BIL 100%
2026-08-13 02:17:35
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Rayn :
same effort? did he they divide the labour and 9months pregnancy. nkt. YTA. to your wife.
2026-08-12 17:13:59
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Jahel DGM Photography :
She disrespected you first saying you all should swap spouses! You replied accordingly IMO
2026-08-12 20:52:47
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Stephanie :
You actually only have one time to tell me you’d rather be with someone else before I free you to be with them 🤷🏽♀️
2026-08-13 16:37:09
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G$ :
Being a mom is a full time job and "work or divorce" is very financially abusive coded, those comments about swapping partners are also weird.
2026-08-13 14:17:07
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Mark Zemgulis :
nta, need to divorce now before more babies make it difficult to leave
2026-08-12 19:04:17
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chocobanane :
I would divorce. she insult OP all the time with her switch husband's comments.
2026-08-12 22:48:11
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sunshine butterfly :
ESH they are not compatible what if is his wife disabled what would happen
2026-08-13 15:54:01
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user522977135 :
The husband said from day one he wanted to be with a partner that works. She didn't believe him or thought she could change his mind. He sounds like he's over this.
2026-08-15 00:58:55
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Dinomudder :
My husband was kind of like this- insisted on me working- but I was fine with that because I had a whole career before we met. After kids, l wanted to stay home for a couple years and we compromised that I c a ould drop down to part time. Considering I ended up with some post partum issues, this was probably a good move for me anyway. in retrospect, he wasn’t really making enough money to support us fully. My part time job actually provided health insurance for the whole family at a very reasonable cost of 400 a month because it was a govt job. Something he would not have been able to do. The point is- after all the discussion, it really came down to him worrying about stability. A two income household is more stable. Years later he lost his job and because of that choice I now have a nice full time gig that helped us get through that period of time. This long winded comment is to say that sometimes people who want a working spouse aren’t being jerks they are just paranoid about stability and the economy.
2026-08-13 15:03:03
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becksapparel254 :
why are there no comments already for me to read as I listen😭😂
2026-08-12 16:43:06
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Bob Rain :
I think she was fantasizing about being married to the brother-in-law, and the brother-in-law shot her down real quick
2026-08-14 15:56:33
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Joel Holt :
NTA, op needs to just a divorce she just wants to sit home, they dont eant the same thing cause she can get a new job
2026-08-13 02:16:23
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Pxdrx :
first and foremost LMAO but yeah absolutely not the ah, but it's pretty clear the two of them aren't that compatible anymore, good luck to them
2026-08-13 04:16:05
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athasin :
She needs to divorce him and find a man who actually wants what she wants.
2026-08-13 12:18:52
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Arthur Pinto :
the perfect household has a stay home partner.... issue is, the working one must be responsible for the other for life, even if the working one decides to divorce..... but if the stay at home one wants to divorce without a good reason like cheating, then they are on their own
2026-08-17 02:34:48
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PviqeeeeUNPROVOKED..💋 :
She needs to find a new husband.
2026-08-17 05:36:30
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Roa l Author 📚 :
ESH idk why she isn't finding a receptionist job or something instead. waitresses don't make CRAP so it does feel like he wants her to work for the sake of working. he doesn't need her money neither does the household. I don't get the point
2026-08-15 00:00:09
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MallarDeb :
OP's wife should be a nanny for the BIL and SIL..
2026-08-13 07:52:10
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MicaelaDScosplay :
Just leave your wife omg
2026-08-14 01:04:00
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