I get defensive cuz he does the same thing my parents did. His feelings r 100% my fault. I’m trying so hard to recognize my part but my process time is slow and his spirals are so fkn fast
2026-08-12 21:23:44
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Gkyfc :
I get defensive because I’m attacked. Nothing to do with my childhood. Maybe something to do with attacker childhood but it is their issue to solve not mine.
2026-08-12 17:41:50
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Rita Sure :
My mother blames me for every bad thing in her life and is still trying to make me feel guilty for walking away from her abuse. We don't all get warm loving moms. When my daughter was born, I set out to be the mom l never had, and l raised a young lady with more self esteem than l ever had. I'm still working on that part.
2026-08-18 19:54:38
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raindropsu :
hah, I can't recall a single time my parents ever doing that to me actually
2026-08-14 22:02:26
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Mr Mitzelplik🇨🇦 :
you consistently make good points! well done!
2026-08-15 00:26:47
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tmm5297 :
o snap
2026-08-23 04:38:54
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lovablefries :
me and my husband are retraining our brain to this. we practice a lot with the cat and dog.
2026-08-13 11:24:56
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Jeay S Raven :
Also, always making or looking for excuses for your behaviour instead of trying to better youself won't get you anywhere. It might be an explanation, it's still not an excuse to go off on others (and I say this as a defensive person who's done the work) you can ask clarifying question to determine if the defensiveness is justified or not too. I saved a lot of friendships by doing this.
2026-08-28 07:58:52
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Probot1138 :
The most. But also the least.
2026-08-13 22:12:02
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Drakkina(1,237) 🆘🇺🇸🐉🏳️🌈 :
Oof 😅
2026-08-18 09:38:19
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kaff :
Yep.
2026-08-18 09:24:38
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Michm66 :
truth
2026-08-13 01:26:48
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IsekaiMePls🌎 :
thank you for posting
2026-08-13 01:06:42
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efch :
I wish “she” could hear, process and understood this.
2026-08-13 01:09:18
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Fernando Badillo Rod :
oh fuck
2026-08-12 21:42:54
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Bill Burch :
I hate that I’m the true villain behind this truth. The good news… you’re still here, and, you still give me a chance to be a better. My moods, my bad behavior, my anger weren’t your fault. They were mine. They were the result of my treating past wrongs as assets to be coveted rather than separating them from who I am.
2026-08-17 13:52:19
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user1172708803319 :
@Pineapples625 me
2026-08-12 20:08:07
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olivi-uuuuhhhh :
😭
2026-08-15 00:17:33
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herpnwlife :
🫶🏻
2026-08-29 07:08:09
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Mark Anthony Reyes - Realtor :
🔥🔥🔥
2026-09-05 12:47:20
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