This only works when he accepts accountability, has emotional regulation and has proper communication skills
2026-08-12 22:54:36
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Tami :
I showed up for him while he destroyed me
2026-08-13 20:23:53
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Denise :
trust its emotionally draining
2026-08-12 19:31:54
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virgobaby :
if they are unhealed honestly they don't need to be dating, it goes for men and women.
2026-08-14 21:28:53
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Nicole :
I’m in love with a man like this after 10 months he said he has to be by himself to focus on himself & things he wants to do in life.. how do you wait on a man that you feel is your person without being in their life fully while they trying to heal.. I want to support from a distance but I don’t wanna waste time if he never comes back.. lost & confused
2026-08-14 18:19:12
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Caramel Baby ❤️ :
Why be with an unhealed man anyway? That all turns toxic and he starts to make you to be the enemy in the end, and then they use the phrase “leave me like everyone else did”…
2026-08-12 21:08:42
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PomPom :
This is 💯, however, it takes an emotionally intelligent person to understand exactly what you're saying. I am currently reading The Man You're Called to Be by @Anthony D Brice and it is teaching me how to understand him
2026-08-12 21:06:33
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Ann Walker :
He has to WANT to heal and be accountable. He has to WANT the conversation.
2026-08-13 20:33:19
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Miss May :
I was trying all that & he still pushed me away
2026-08-12 21:57:07
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dragonqueen914 :
never made him feel weak or soft, always was opened to communication.
2026-08-12 22:27:56
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Jean♡ :
Explain him going cold when I see a chick named suga texts him on signal cause it comes up in his watch ??!
2026-08-12 17:56:29
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brittanydiamonds :
Beautifully spoken!! I love how you spoken to both partners and not just one sided because healing is for a life time!
2026-08-15 18:44:10
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Deborah88 :
NEVER show up for an unhealed man he will take anything he’s unhealed from out on you no matter how good you are to him… unhealed people should not date they need to heal first that goes for men and women
2026-08-15 02:10:01
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Whotaughtyouthat_ :
toxic and nobody dont have time for that. It ends with: here's the door.
2026-08-12 19:50:17
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lareyna.109 :
Why can’t grown men just choose to heal and communicate. How is that asking for too much?!
2026-08-13 03:42:03
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JustShaR :
Give him space and keep him prayed up. Let him process it all and don’t give up on him. His silence is his pain.
2026-08-13 05:39:59
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Lois Wimberly :
Yes indeed
2026-08-14 02:55:33
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Shonie :
Did all that and that ish is drainingggggggg and diabolical… It’s a waste of time just repeated cycles 🔁 did all of that and still ended up disrespected and his full past being projecting on me and hurting me in the process
2026-08-12 20:24:48
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Afia :
I tried. He started treating me terribly dumping more and more of his trauma on me then treating me the same way he described women treated him. He needed therapy. I wish him well and healing from a distance.
2026-08-14 05:26:01
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kitty_novicky :
I think I’m dealing w exactly this
2026-08-13 02:03:22
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Jas Out Here |✨Content Vibing✨ :
Nahhh all that balancing you end up sacrificing yourself N T Ways
2026-08-13 03:00:08
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Ohodgee :
Too much work.
2026-08-12 20:44:38
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MsRjh :
Well said young man well said
2026-08-12 21:31:44
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Dmarie :
If you’re unhealed and have not done the work or try to stay out of relationships. You cause pain to others for no reason. Literally just got of a relationship dealing with this.
2026-08-14 12:54:58
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