@bakhe.dlamini: Mpumalanga Marriage Conference, Nelspruit, 15 August, Church on The Hill Tickets at WebTicket or Pick n Pay. Webticket link below https://www.webtickets.co.za/v2/event.aspx?itemid=1597769356 #marriage #relationships #tiktokviral #fyp
Mine sold me a false vision I was convinced that we will go somewhere and yah
2026-08-12 18:33:58
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Chantel Goddess 🦋 :
men are definitely not natural leaders
2026-08-15 01:44:08
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️Lebo :
Dr B, please do a teaching about mother and her son... The root of the problem entering the marriage. So that the mothers, we mothers can cut the umbilical cord
2026-08-13 03:44:38
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Ayodeji Bwilliams |Sociologist :
Well articulated. Most societal problems stem from a severe lack of leadership and long-term family vision. People focus on immediate gratification and ignore how daily choices transmit to their children. Children absorb actions, not words. True generational wealth and lasting legacy require leadership to outlast your lifespan. Mastering emotional intelligence serves as a critical first step toward building something enduring. Great video.
2026-08-12 18:51:15
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Bongz T :
Dr, here’s another part of the question I’d really appreciate your perspective on regarding leadership as a man in a relationship.
I understand that leadership isn’t just about providing financially or presenting a vision. I have also tried to demonstrate through my actions the kind of man I am—my values, ethics, respect, consistency and the way I conduct myself. I believe that if I expect certain qualities from my partner, I should first demonstrate them myself.
I have also tried different approaches to create more comfort, openness and friendship in the relationship. I’ve tried being more charismatic, light-hearted, approachable and intentional about creating an environment where communication can happen naturally.
But the challenge is that the energy doesn’t seem to come back.
2026-08-12 19:31:03
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Ayanda KaNgunezi :
eey kumina wathi he's not good with leading the relationship, ucela mina to lead. there and there I knew that I had to work on my exit plan.
2026-08-12 20:10:16
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Stacey 🫦🫧 :
The worst thing you can ever do for yourself is marrying an avoidant partner! That person will frustrate you 😭😭😭😭😭
2026-08-13 05:13:13
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Sesi Dimakatso🥰 :
It's unfortunate for me, we already in marriage and I'm suffocating. I feel like screaming and I don't what to do 😭😭
2026-08-12 18:44:14
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Unathy :
I bought my ex husband, a father of my 3 kids a book on fathers & sons, he was disgusted, said I insinuated that he can’t raise his kids. I gave up bandla 🤦🏽♀️that man was defensive. I always bought myself books on motherhood, being a wife & woman of prayer etc mostly by Stormie Ormatian & he would applaud me, but suddenly when he was the one to be empowered it was chai
2026-08-13 06:15:57
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Nomfundo :
Everytime I listen to Dr Bakhe, I know I should never settle.
2026-08-13 05:35:04
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richardclivebanda :
This marriage thing is not easy aai😭
2026-08-12 20:30:36
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Gift Moya Mr WAY :
Conference for man is truly needed our marriages are dying.... Cry for help as man
2026-08-12 19:06:41
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Themba.Latha. Com :
there is a lot that we need to learn in this marriage life
2026-08-12 18:19:58
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Gustavo :
You can't lead what you can't control !!
2026-08-13 13:31:22
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zoleka lolwane :
U got me Tatu'Dlamini when u said "if you are hiding bank statements and are not transparent with finances as a man, u are grooming and building a crook in ur wife" I know exactly what u are talking about
2026-08-12 18:58:38
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EnhleMbalitrudy :
Man think leadership is controlling a woman.
2026-09-09 18:47:56
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Fortu🇿🇦 :
aiy...Mina i have given up a longtime ago
2026-08-12 20:01:28
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Touch :
There's too much logistics here..asiyekeni abantu nento zabo
2026-08-14 16:57:57
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Kim Ngcobo :
Ngisaba ngisho uku commenta but ngyafisa
2026-08-13 10:33:48
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Stuff by Lindsey :
My husband smokes hookah does doordash …. I have a problem he says “ i dont want to hear about it” or its my own fault essentially. Im divorcing him
2026-08-13 05:22:06
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Lead those that want to be Led.
2026-08-13 09:05:34
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ericmfo :
after marriage I still need to say where we're going kanti mele siyephi futhi after are we talking about money things or what now?
2026-08-12 19:39:54
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Keitumetsi, Lady'p :
My prayer to be able to talk to you 1day baba Dlamini, I feel like m lost
2026-08-12 18:19:28
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Favor :
This is the most exhausting and frustrating feeling ever in the marriage. Yoh hai maan mfundisi sicela wenze ama man conferences we will buy them tickets as gifts😍. Some partners are present and all but this lack of leadership ivele ibe a thorn nkosiyam.
2026-08-13 15:10:32
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Charlotte Langa :
Now I am mute because I am tired of always initiating then being told gore I always want to win.
2026-08-13 06:16:46
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