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Lisa Hopkins Hutchin :
She must be a wonderful woman, because she raised a wonderful son. Thank you for loving your mom so much.
2026-08-13 01:33:55
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susansaysso :
How insightful for you to see what divorce does to the entire family. You’re not a loser or a failure. You’re doing the best you can. 🥰
2026-08-12 23:51:04
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Tsehaye Tekia :
I think you’re a wonderful Son Family Man ! Do what you can don’t beat yourself for everything!! You’re doing great. Love from Minnesota 💕🙏🏾
2026-08-20 17:39:01
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Stella :
Honestly, your parents are older even if they were together you may still need to do a lot of these things
2026-08-13 16:45:13
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SIGnifigant.Carters :
My parents divorced when I was 5, I’m 44 now. My mother was a single mother to 3 girls. All those years she had to figure it all out alone. She had a brother that helped a lot. Then her son in laws took over. She passed away 10 years ago she was only 64. It was cancer. I’ve had so much anger especially as an adult with a husband and children towards my father for how she had to live and alone till she died so young. My heart feels it was because she had so much stress for sooo many years alone with 3 little girls. She was amazing, so strong, never said a bad word about that man.
2026-08-13 01:54:44
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Elizabeth_Realtor_TC :
You are a good son! It’s okay to vent maybe start delegating some duties to your other brother. Take turns helping your Mom. Life is busy!! too busy some days. Dont beat yourself up.
2026-08-12 22:32:58
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Lillie :
I have 3 children not one of them help me as they live far away. I do everything on my own. I make my own calls. Live happy without a man, I don’t need one. I make enough money, have my own place and a vacation place in El Salvador. I am a strong woman living happy. I am 65.
2026-08-14 11:44:39
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Sonic Twist :
that's a legitimate struggle. but please don't forget that the plug doesn't get pulled from one end and if so maybe one side who pushed the other side to pull the plug. so maybe you should not be angry of your dad, nor your mother. but as a man you know when go through struggle, its always silent. that kind of struggle that pushed your dad to pull the plug or pushed to do so. maybe also your dad is struggling...but silently as a man, maybe he needs your help too
2026-08-20 16:32:37
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JLHRB :
I have never resonated so much with someone and their story. Thank you for this vulnerability. Life sucks, but I can see you’re killing it. Give yourself some grace, sir. You are showing up evening when there is nothing left to give. Big hugs!
2026-08-20 00:43:14
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Mercedes Mendez :
Your mom‘s issue is not your dad’s responsibility. It’s yours and your brothers and if you have a sister now your dad he went on with his life, but your mom didn’t so that’s on her, you have to help her no matter what get the funds from your bro split the cost
2026-08-14 15:29:18
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eneliapadilla7 :
I never thought of this but interesting
2026-08-20 14:08:45
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Yoonicorns 雅芽 :
It doesn’t take a divorce to have a totally absent husband.
2026-08-20 13:31:52
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LoaCarola 🇳🇱 :
I'm angry at your dad too now..
2026-08-15 17:56:24
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heididoe123 🇨🇦🍁 :
I mean this in the kindest, gentlest way…but your mom is of an age that even if she had been married all these years, she could be single at any time. You were never going to reach the “end” without one of your parents being alone and needing you. I think it’s time to work through your anger for your dad, and perhaps ask if some of your anger is, instead, about being “sandwiched” between 2 generations that need you. Your feelings are very genuine and justified. Your brother needs to share the burden.
2026-08-14 13:12:34
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صووت نون :
هذه صياغة إنجليزية دافئة ومناسبة كتعليق، من دون أن تقلل من تعبه أو مشاعره: I truly understand that caring for an aging parent can be physically and emotionally demanding, and your feelings are completely valid. Yet there is something deeply meaningful about caring for our mothers. They carried us, protected us, stayed awake through our illnesses, and faced countless worries and hardships while raising us. Perhaps that very oven once prepared some of the most delicious meals and happiest memories of your childhood. My mother is 80 years old, and I thank God for the blessing of being able to care for her. Before leaving for work, I prepare her breakfast and make sure her lunch and dinner are ready. I help her bathe, and every month I organize her medications in special containers. I placed sun and moon stickers on them so she can easily distinguish between her daytime and nighttime medicines. Every other day, I take her to a club designed for people in her age group. I feel truly blessed to care for both my mother and my children. My children are teenagers under 18, yet they treat me with so much love and gentleness because they are learning, through what they see, the meaning of honoring and caring for one’s parents. This is how love continues through generations. One day, when we grow older, we may also need someone’s patience, kindness, and care. What we give with love today often finds its way back to us tomorrow. May God give you strength, reward your kindness, ease your heart, and bless every moment you spend caring for your mother. You are doing more than you realize.
2026-08-19 02:26:46
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سمو :
You are lucky that your mother turns to you when she needs something. That is not a burden; it is an honor and a blessing. Remember how she carried you, cared for you, and sacrificed for you when you were a child. Now you have the beautiful opportunity to give back a small part of what she gave you. Whatever happened between your mother and father 30 years ago, and regardless of whose responsibility these things should have been, don’t let their past take away your chance to honor your mother today. Be proud that you are the first person she calls. It means she sees you as her support, her hope, and someone she can depend on. One day, you may wish you could hear her voice again saying, “My son, I need your help.” Cherish that privilege while you still have it.
2026-08-16 16:36:30
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María Teresa de López :
Did your Mom take care of you when you were little ? So, just pay her back !!! It is not difficult, or tough… It is amazing, even when your not her favourite… No one has to be stuck in an horrible marriage ! No one !
2026-08-16 20:54:42
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Natasha Coulis :
It’s okay to pull the plug on a marriage but the person with the most power, who benefited the most from the marriage needs to pay the person whose labour they benefited from.
2026-08-16 18:21:29
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lynn zino :
She needs to sell her house problem solved why is your dad responsible they’ve been divorced for 30 yrs 😳
2026-08-13 12:43:43
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chanel10304 :
You are tired and it’s okay to be tired! Rest 🙏
2026-08-13 02:50:10
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tiktokscammell :
I hear you. I am in the same situation as your mom and I feel terrible every time I need to lean on my children for help. They have their own lives to manage. You are probably appreciated more than you could ever realize.
2026-08-16 17:18:39
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sandycat53 :
you are not a loser, you are doing the best you can,
2026-08-15 03:00:39
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james ley :
What i didnt get why do you blame your father ?
2026-08-13 02:36:13
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Jenn-X :
I got divorced 15 years ago and I still haven’t recovered. I will prob never be financially stable for the rest of my life, into retirement. I was a SAHM and was out of the workforce for 12 years and had to start over like a college kid at 41. It’s been a rocky road.
2026-08-13 01:33:52
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user9682304544139 :
If your father had died instead of divorcing your mom, you'd be doing the same but you shouldn't have to carry this cross by yourself, talk to your siblings and tell then you're overwhelmed and need help. You're a good son and one day when she's gone you'll be at peace because you took good care of her 🙏
2026-08-13 20:16:11
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