@ludddesignss: Some of us didn’t get the luxury of disappearing to “get our life together.” We were struggling too… we just kept showing up for our kids. 💯❤️🩹 My son haven’t seen his father since last March he don’t even know him. And my daughter haven’t seen him since April. He recently called on her birthday after skipping last year and promised her a gift this year and never came through. Smh & crushed her feelings. #SingleMom #MomLife #AbsentFather #creatorsearchinsights #momcontentcreators
“ i gotta make sure im good before i can make sure you guys are good” pisses me off SO bad bc i gotta make sure she’s good before im good, but that’s just expected, right? 🙄
2026-09-12 02:10:45
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judy :
My son’s father once said he needed time to work on himself 🙄 what a luxury!!
2026-09-10 20:32:03
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TeeJay :
See this is why I use to help my ex (I know it wasn’t my responsibility) but I never wanted his kids to feel his struggle but it was unappreciated so never again
2026-09-03 15:15:15
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Mirandasthebest :
We must have the same one
2026-08-30 15:03:37
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tricialoving :
My ex, and his new girlfriend, once asked me to drop the child support case so he could focus on himself 😏 mind you it was like $150 a month…
2026-09-11 04:19:57
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Jayla_wayla💋 :
Literally my bd excuse
2026-09-12 19:19:17
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Alejandraxx :
And still remained kind 🥴🙂↕️
2026-09-10 14:39:55
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M Dot 🇵🇷 :
mine said this and literally never got his life together .. thank God I didn't sit and wait
2026-09-10 20:18:33
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The Neurodivergent Parent :
Mines so embarrassing because he’s been absent for 12 years and still is trying to get his life together🙄
2026-09-13 14:27:55
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Kay J :
he told me I'm a mother that's what I supposed to do. it's "different" for him
2026-10-02 02:08:30
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Candigal524 :
I’d actually appreciate the honesty rather than the lying and inconsistencies. Tell me what you can do and I’ll work with it for the sake of our child
2026-09-10 15:42:42
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Novatheshopper :
They just be sorry as hell
2026-09-12 15:19:53
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Kenya Cannon :
Literally was just saying this.
2026-09-10 22:02:48
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DMoney2012 :
Facts
2026-09-10 21:23:36
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Crybaby Cassie :
Felt this!!!
2026-09-11 21:20:56
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youluvmariah777 :
real!
2026-09-09 20:27:31
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eee4567891011 :
Facts!
2026-09-12 14:48:50
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𝑴 𝑰 𝑨 ♛ :
this !
2026-09-07 22:06:36
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Lisa Pollard :
We must have the same one
2026-08-28 15:44:06
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🌟Nicole🌟 :
This!
2026-09-10 19:49:43
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Kissy 💋 :
Facts!
2026-08-13 12:22:54
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YoursisterKodi💜 :
This.
2026-09-20 06:05:40
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Tomeka b :
Make it make sense.🤷🏽♀️✌🏾💯
2026-10-01 20:41:51
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2026-09-10 19:05:38
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