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Geogoldstar62 :
Reciprocity is perhaps key 🔑 here. If its all you n you dont take time to recognise what comes back, if anything. Takers soon stand out, especially if you ask back n there's nothing.
2026-08-13 12:29:32
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gratifiedheav888 :
Healing has taught me that eventually shit becomes tired. I just wasn’t able to keep dealing with individuals where reciprocity was not present. But before then I had to acknowledge and accept just how much I was overly showing up. Boundaries start off rough for everyone because it’s challenging to let go of familiarity and comfort but I learned that if I didn’t I’d just keep attracting the same types of individuals. Enough just became enough you know me at some point everyone is required to get their if they really desire change. The work is no easy thing to do so be prepared to give it all you got cause challenges, test, and discomfort will manifest to see if you’re really READY for better.
2026-08-13 18:33:34
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✨Tomi girl✨ :
I feel like over giving is when you agreed to do something that requires you to somehow abandon yourself. When you go into yourself first you have more to get but when you’re constantly giving him surviving yourself you run on empty.
2026-08-13 15:38:13
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InsideTheQuiet_ :
This is been a big lesson for me in this life. I believe the non negotiable is reciprocity. No matter if it is charity or giving; having boundaries is key!!
2026-08-13 12:47:21
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🫘Beans🫘 :
Making a meal to share vs always being asked to cook. In literal and figurative terms. That’s where it starts and how it always seems to be ending and I’m struggling to find the line where I can step back and say ok this is where I stop without coming off as mean.
2026-08-13 13:21:24
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Ames3781official :
I am often accused of over-giving because people assume it is to my detriment when it's not. But I know where my boundaries are. 😉😎
2026-08-13 15:01:47
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Karney :
Gifting from overflow is my ultimate target, let's normalise not depleting self as a cost for ANY gift..? We wouldn't deplete another, no matter what our needs! So, why are we allowing this for ourselves?
2026-08-13 13:58:34
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Violett Music 🎶 ❤️🫶🌟Lover :
Line were you given and Some using you , so you draw the line enough , I think if someone not same as you , need to go away from people like this
2026-08-13 14:38:46
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Uduak T. :
thank you for talking about this
2026-08-13 13:37:56
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Naa :
Giving is an expression of your intentions towards another not because you are under coercion to do so, at such instant, you arrive at a quantum over what to give and the limit you can offer, however, overgiving can step in when the situation may be legit and the purpose of giving is not yet met, unfortunately, some individuals and situations can over squeeze us which results in overgiving, this is abuse of your generosity, so where do I draw the line, at the point when I noticed me being exploited, this is self love and not selfishness. Thank you
2026-08-13 16:25:40
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Wendy Haughenberry :
I quit letting what others think outrank what I think.
2026-08-16 13:03:39
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Frk Adamstuen :
Reciprocity doesn’t mean 50/50 all the time. It means both people are willing to show up, care, listen and give back.
2026-08-13 21:18:16
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@deanlightracer20 :
if you can give give. No matter how.
2026-08-14 20:31:27
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LT Homemaker :
I'm a caregiver and often times mistaken for a people pleaser. I'm a mom and I also take care of my family as we get older. My kids are grown now but I still retain the quality of a caregiver. I was looking forward to taking care of myself for a change but caregivers always have someone in the family that needs help.😊
2026-08-13 17:26:02
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Walk with Jesus :
Giving is a beautiful thing, but giving with discernment is for protection it protects your boundaries and it protects the other party as well. We can become givers and enablers and so having discernment when giving is very essential to to the giving and receiving on each end
2026-08-14 13:05:04
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Mycelium :
Truth requires no owner. A pathway can have an architect. A pathway can be taught. Its principles can be learned. But learning an architecture does not retroactively make one its architect. Embodiment cannot be transferred by vocabulary. Someone may inherit the map; they do not thereby inherit the miles walked to construct it. 🎭🎩🎭💛🔆🌱
2026-08-13 12:17:59
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Patricia Kendrick :
Nomore Iver Giving Take It For Granted Done 👍✅
2026-08-14 20:27:58
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Frk Adamstuen :
It depends. Is it a friend? If they do it just for gaining something.. well then its not a friend.
2026-08-13 21:13:53
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Clyde :
when you know you are not appreciated and still go hard for the team, that's where you develop the devine blessings even when you have no results, itz the difference between caring for others and putting in work for self and your looked at like you stupid for being the support, it hurts in the end yet itz one of my greatest memories ever knowing my heart was that fulfilled by helping who I care 4😊...period
2026-08-17 03:47:02
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Earth Angel :
I don't give where I'm not appreciated anymore 🙂.
2026-08-15 15:49:15
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YOGASALSA OFFICIAL TM :
Totally
2026-08-16 15:59:01
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Joe P. Montalvo :
Give when the idea comes naturally it’s Ok for me I din’t think about it the idea the impulse came on its own it’s Ok
2026-08-14 02:49:39
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Trish :
I’m definitely the over giver.. I feel like some people are starting to say no to whatever I’m giving them cause they feel guilty.. it makes me happy when I give to the people I like and feel offended or sad when they decline to accept it..
2026-08-14 00:54:56
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Kash Wainwright :
I had to learn how to give only from a state of sincerity or overflow. It was the only way the I could be sure that it was pure for me and not beyond the boundaries that I needed to keep for myself.
2026-08-13 23:54:32
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kennyodam :
who is that for anyone to say , except for me
2026-08-13 12:46:22
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