@mlec.ailler: What was best for them...

Arman :

I chose her everyday, everytime, thru our arguments and shittiest days. In the end she chose herself

lex :

i just don’t understand why he didn’t care about losing me

Zentavia :

I loved him so much more than he loved my so it would’ve never worked anyway

Sethinnit :

but every part of me wants to go back

spamleht :

The loss of autonomy was what shocked me the most. I had no say, so all I could do was walk.

Arlo :

I wanted to try so fkn bad

౨ৎ 𝒷𝒶𝓈𝒾𝓁𝑒𝒶 ౨ৎ :

I chose him but he chose himself. He said I was his first healthy relationship and most loving girlfriend so it didn’t make sense and it still doesn’t. 5 months, and it’s getting easier, but it still feels like I’m cheating on him or abandoning him by moving on. My heart has been weary for a while. Weary but hopeful.

Jalen :

The brick you threw has my whole name on it

Bris ᖭི༏ᖫྀ :

I still miss him

🌸anambo💕 :

I should never ever ever have talked to him, never.

Gbean :

I chose him he chose himself

Acorona22 :

Talked to my therapist the other day she said what else does he need to do to prove to you he doesn’t care . He left and if he wanted to come back he would’ve come back he can right .. i just sat there in tears because I know it’s the truth but hearing it outloud from someone else was heart wrenching.

pio🐥 :

І ԝаѕ ᴄurіօuѕ аbоut Ꮮօrіаn Kаdе bеᴄаuѕе thе ᴄоnϲерtѕ ѕօundеd fаmіlіаr аt fіrѕt͵ but thе ԝаү hе ϲоnnеᴄtѕ dеѕіrе͵ аttеntіοn аnd vаlіdаtіοn іѕ асtuаllү рrеttу unuѕuаl. Іt mакеѕ уоu lοօĸ аt ѕоmе vеrү nօrmаl dаtіng bеhаvіօr dіffеrеntlү.

steven :

The timing is insane

Giovanna :

I would of chosen him EVERY SINGLE TIME. And I did. There were moments, I felt safer leaving and walking away. But instead, I worked through the triggers. And I had the uncomfortable conversations. Even though I was scared how he would react. Because a lot of the time I felt like I was walking on egg shells. But I can’t expect my heart in others. I’m not one to give up. But others, give up on me 😔

Mandi :

It was best for them. Grieve it. Accept it. Go live.

bangtanfanfic001 :

I had to realize that he choose to take the easiest path for himself. He didn’t want to grow up and change for himself nor me. He even told me that he would live with regret if breaking up with me was a mistake. You have to let people do them and heal yourself. Focus your energy on you and things that benefit you. 🫶🏽

ash :

he gave up on me but you know life goes on

Mondmädchen :

I know he did and it's absolutely okay and I would never be angry about his decision. But I'm angry at the universe, you know? Sometimes things don't work out and I ask myself, "but what can I learn from this?" I do, everytime. But da'mn, this one time now? I really wished it would work out. And it really makes me sad that it didn't.

👻 :

“i promise i will never leave you i love you with my whole heart” mm where are you now ?

sky (◍•ᴗ•◍) :

it was a selfish decision and it was his, not mine. I'll never forget him saying "I'm not ready, able, or willing to change". I wasn't asking him to do anything but act like he wanted this. he said he still loved me, but he sure didn't act like it at the end.

soliami33 :

What hurts more is that when I was there thinking about how to fix and get better, grow together as ppl bc I know that ppl have their own traumas, backgrounds and “bad days”, he was thinking about whether he should leave me or not. Whether we’re compatible and if I’m the wrong person. I was there when I thought he needed that. I was there when he was playing w his friends, distracting himself w easy connections, when he was ghosting and ignoring me. What hurts more is that ppl are egoistical, bc of social media they think that there always smth better. Ppl nowadays view relationships as smth transactional. I was there, so dumb, thinking that if I can give him more time, maybe. Maybe. Maybe. Maybe someday he will understand the depth and value me more. Maybe he will change and think that we’re going to go through that bc I showed that I can be there w him even at our lowest. When I chose him w my whole heart, mind and body, he was already deciding to let me go. That part really hurts. And yeah, it’s maybe the best for both of us bc he showed me the parts of me that can love a person so deeply. I understood that you can’t build smth stable and healthy w someone who doesn’t know how to show up consistently or doesn’t even know what they want and need from relationships or this life.

Clxudz# :

Only if she knew how hard I tried for her

kathy :