@mindofhsoul: To know you are love at your core means to accept love as a reflection of what you already are. It is not something you have to earn or deserve
i went through a whole identity crisis for the past few months because i was so used to the same narrative of “its not a priority” when i just feared a loss of control, you have no idea how soothing it has been to read this and understand. i hope you know you are so loveable, and thank you for posting this love 💗
2026-08-13 17:17:05
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Aimzyy :
I feel like my issue is more the fear of someone making me feel good, getting attached to how life feels with them and then they just leave. I can’t seem to enjoy or feel good on my own which I know is the problem. I mean I’ve been single forever, but having feelings for someone seems to make me more excited for life again, giddy and it fills the emptiness….so simultaneously I get so scared of loosing it. I cannot seem to conjure up those feelings alone, it feels impossible…
2026-08-14 22:29:44
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Laura Balconi459 :
i have been struggling with this my entire life but I was only able to admit it to myself a few months ago, when I met a guy that showed genuine interest to me; i was caught completely off guard, since i never once thought anyone could be attracted to me/want to get to know in a romantic way, as well as very startled because i think it contradicted a deep believe i have had about myself for a long time: i am not lovable or desirable. So I panicked, literally shut a door in his face and ghosted him without even giving our connection a chance. I brought it up in therapy a few days later - the first ever time breaching the subject since I had been avoiding even thinking about it - and when I justified my reaction by saying that I could only see him as a friend, my therapist asked if it was actually true or if I was scared to let myself experience love for the first time; let's just say, it was a very eye opening session. I will try to focus on it and use your suggestions even though right now facing my biggest fear seems impossible <3
2026-08-14 13:58:26
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naia🪽 :
best thing ive read today
2026-08-13 18:02:20
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𝒽𝒶̂ :
please never delete this it feels like im at the last stage but still sometimes at the first
2026-08-14 01:15:18
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ℳaite :
u don’t know how much i needed this, but i cried bc it’s hard to face this
2026-08-14 03:43:08
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anna ☀︎ 🍉 :
my issue is.. there are no opportunities to reject. i go out, i meet people, i try my best not to go back to the isolation, but these opportunities to experience anything romantic don’t ever show up. i have never met anyone that showed any kind of interest in me. i’ve been focusing more on making friends and stuff, which in itself is fine and working slowly, but at least it’s working. but romantic connection? still feels completely impossible, no matter how much time i spent trying to go out and meet people. i’m getting so close to 30, and i’ve never even kissed anyone. hard not to believe there’s something else wrong with me, despite how much i believe i am worthy of experiencing romantic love.
2026-08-14 22:46:19
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TRUEBLOOD :
are you 21?
2026-08-15 12:43:09
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Nadirkayanii :
Loved reading this!
2026-08-14 02:31:36
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chaï :
Tysm seeing we can actually heal and move on from this is so freeing , I thought that I was doomed to craving a love I could never let myself fully feel
2026-08-13 18:53:05
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YourbabeG :
What’s mean for you will come but I waited so long
2026-08-16 02:08:25
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niyokh :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-08-14 10:59:10
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bea 🎀 :
😂😂😂
2026-08-14 07:35:10
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user54r4h :
😁😁😁
2026-08-14 12:28:11
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