You’ve described my situation in such detail I don’t know what to do now
2026-08-23 18:44:40
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mrbeerpong :
How does one acquire this kind of knowledge?
2026-08-23 09:36:00
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Kenyan Foodie 🎀 :
Can I also add that in a way men reveal women’s identity in relationships because their actions bring out different parts of them e.g if he “presents” as kind, loving and affectionate she becomes warm, passionate and open and that’s who she becomes in the relationship, and if he “presents” as withdrawn, cold or dismissive she becomes (or is forced to become) something else. And often when a man presents as something for a long time during their relationship then changes, she may see this is as duplicitous and the “mask” he had on falls off and she loses the attraction she had to him because it isn’t him anymore. Or rather, she isn’t feeling like herself anymore. He forced her out of an identity she loved being. Because he is capable of being cold and dismissive, then when he was warm and affectionate and protective that must have been an act, and therefore she can’t trust herself with him, if he can change HER, not just himself, so easily. Idk if that makes sense 😅
2026-08-17 01:47:54
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Holly :
This is an incredible take
2026-08-13 21:53:59
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nolovemutt :
Love your stuff , but the comments always take me in two different directions . I think a lot of what you say does validate certain male and female behaviors (for better or worse explanation) But i feel like i see the overwhelming amount of women who hear what you’re saying at face value but completely miss what the opposite implications of these things are , i could be tripping but id love to hear what you think
2026-08-15 21:25:03
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diionhart1 :
Wowwww. You go deeper n deeper everytime. This might be your best one yet! Bravo 👏 ✨
2026-08-13 17:42:14
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🐰🖤 :
"The man says, do the right thing and i might return you to yourself." i had to pause and take a moment because this is an incredible take !!!
2026-08-14 10:06:53
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pr0z4cprincesss :
you are so insightful i never watch videos fully through but i always watch yours
2026-08-14 06:33:11
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Emerald :
You're poetic with it. Love it!
2026-08-13 18:54:47
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Faith :
I’m grateful for you sharing your original thoughts with us
2026-08-13 20:11:17
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theforestwitch :
I can’t even touch men anymore. Not even with a stick
2026-08-15 21:10:33
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user785354288 :
Genuinely speechless at this one
2026-08-14 11:25:27
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bccampa :
What is love to you than? Have you made a video on that, I’d be interested
2026-08-16 21:07:58
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Onkssssss :
This put into words why I broke up with him. It’s not that I couldn’t let him be vulnerable it’s the facade before the vulnerability and me being vulnerable from the get go. His vulnerability broke the trust.
2026-08-15 11:24:02
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Bee 🐝 :
this really helped me
2026-08-14 00:37:46
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flowithmillyy :
No because is this DEEP
2026-08-14 11:12:52
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baddbichchronicles :
I like u, u be keeping it real. Honestly life changing information
2026-08-14 11:53:34
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beck 🐝 :
Wow this is insane rhetoric
2026-08-14 04:35:12
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Awaken Joy :
The levels and the layers …. Aaaaaah thank you for scratching my brain and my spirit
2026-08-14 03:22:13
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hyeshonndttfcgkliug7 :
This was a dumb one
2026-08-14 04:17:12
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Lover Girl ✨🤍 :
It’s so sad but true
2026-08-15 14:09:02
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