I think it’s a generational thing. I’m 28, personally I wouldn’t even drop in on a friend with a new baby without pre-arranging. I work in maternity care and also tell new parents to set firm boundaries about visiting and to tell people that they will tell them when they are ready for visitors.
2026-08-31 23:14:13
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Tom InM :
easy to tell you're not living in Dublin!! it's a traditional thing they mean well
2026-08-13 18:00:21
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FM :
Well actually people should text beforehand especially just after giving birth. I think in Ireland with new Mums most would text and ask when is it a good time to drop in. I think maybe they wanted to show their support as you’re not from here. They might have thought you’d be missing your own family friends
2026-08-14 08:10:06
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Cancan66 :
I would never call in unannounced, esp after someone had a baby!!!!
2026-08-14 17:18:00
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Daoltheanga 🇮🇪 :
It’s a spectrum depending very much on whether you are urban vs. Rural and also stuff like family dynamics
2026-08-13 18:02:50
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SlushMuppyPup :
Just get electric gates fitted on your driveway
2026-08-13 18:10:59
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Florrie :
It’s a thing with different generations us older folks do it but calling in to a family with a new baby shouldn’t happen unless you say it’s ok
2026-08-17 17:19:45
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Aidan Deasy :
It’s more a rural thing as opposed to cities and big towns so I’m assuming you are living in a rural area
2026-08-14 15:40:04
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sinead molloy :
Will always be a thing here
2026-08-14 20:26:43
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ncardiff :
I wouldn't dream of turning up without checking in first and it's years since an unexpected knock on the door was anyone I know
2026-08-14 20:49:44
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Garrett McCarry :
When I go back to visit my mum , I’m amazed at the drop in culture. Sometimes it’s like grand central station ! And in the summer , sometimes they call in at 10pm ! Like really ?
2026-08-14 23:04:30
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johnboy2025 :
yes just call in for a cuppa tea and a chat its normal
2026-08-14 00:06:29
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user7640251482446 :
Yes it does happen all the time. absolutely especially because you a new little one. Any excuse to visit 😄
2026-08-13 20:56:18
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Whatsgoingon :
If you breastfeed in front of them they’ll settle down 😅🤣 or they’ll bombard you with questions about how that works 🤣
2026-08-14 10:40:50
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:sarah: :
yes irs still our culture 🙏❤️congrats on new gaby ✨❤️
2026-08-13 22:13:40
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Whatsgoingon :
Have you been to an Irish funeral yet? Now that was a culture shock 😅
2026-08-14 10:41:35
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paultumelty :
Don’t think you’ll have many calling after that video
2026-08-14 13:13:00
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