I will choose me whether it takes 5yrs without love time will come l will have
2026-08-17 15:08:00
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Shona Claudinah :
This is such a powerful reminder. ❤️Sometimes we spend so much of our lives trying to be everything to everyone that we forget that we also deserve a life that feels honest and peaceful to us. I’m learning that disappointing people does not automatically mean you have done something wrong. Sometimes choosing yourself, setting boundaries and saying “no” is necessary for your own well-being.
You can love people, care about them deeply and still choose a different path for yourself. At some point, you have to stop living according to everyone else’s expectations and start asking yourself, “What kind of life do I actually want?” Because people-pleasing will have you exhausted, resentful and completely disconnected from yourself. Protect your peace. Choose yourself. And let people be disappointed if they have to be. You are still allowed to be a good person. ❤️✨
2026-08-14 19:03:47
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sebotsana :
My mom is draining me am tired 😭
2026-08-16 02:44:16
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Ni mimi Rk :
It can really be draining 😭😭😭😭
2026-08-18 07:16:25
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belle fille :
Exactly who I am rite now and I don’t even care wat odas think👌👌u can neva be enof for odas…always choose urself👌
2026-08-14 05:21:33
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princessmervin :
I'm at that stage now,there are some relationships I broke off recently that I didn't think I'll ever be able to buy them I just did it easily this time,then I sat and realized it was difficult before because I really cared and didn't want to let them go because I don't have that many people in my life but the moment I was done there was no going back
2026-08-14 09:06:57
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M.Y. Leong :
Gotta do what I gotta do. Self love matters.
2026-08-16 17:11:01
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numberz.4 :
And this is the time✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️
2026-08-17 17:35:38
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pearlcindy26 :
Just do you!!!…..The world will adjust!🥰
2026-08-16 17:02:34
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Lynn’s :
Me always choose ourselves last
2026-08-17 19:59:28
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Ana3107 💕 :
It’s strange, I see this post and I was thinking the same. We spend half our lives pleasing people and trying to impress those who don’t like us anyway.
2026-08-15 07:13:11
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Rozvi Queen 🇿🇼🇲🇿 :
are you talking to me. I'm tired 😩😩
2026-08-15 16:07:11
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Sue :
Time after time ❤️
2026-08-15 15:32:22
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mimigrace80 :
🥰🥰 I should have done this much earlier, I'm now glowing and adding some weight after setting boundaries, life is too short to drain yourself, we live once and die once
2026-08-15 00:04:16
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Rose :
All my life I lived for others the children, the family it was always someone or something.. the children became adults. Everyone moved on… the person whom I admired the most my best friend, My soulmate passed away January 31 of this year and so now it is my turn to put myself first and do things that make me happy and be a positive person along with carrying this grief.
2026-08-15 18:49:11
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princessufuoma0612 :
At some point, you will have to disappoint others to live a life that is honest to you. People_pleasing will drain you,not save you. You have every right to set boundaries and choose your peace. You can disappoint people and still be a good person
2026-08-14 14:37:16
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lovebe :
The day I realised this was the day I have been enjoying myself since last year 2025, i always scared of what people will say but now I don't care anymore
2026-08-14 21:06:47
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Peter Torch :
Fact.
2026-08-16 08:31:07
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🌹ADEBAYO💕OPEYEMI🥰 JELILAT💯 :
At some point, you will have to disappoint others to live a life that is honest to you. People_pleasing will drain you,not save you. You have every right to set boundaries and choose your peace. You can disappoint people and still be a good person
2026-08-14 11:32:35
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Jun#ot :
But never stay alone always. Get just one atleast 🙄
2026-08-15 19:29:32
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AB Jw.🇬🇭 🇷🇸 :
this is all what I needed 😏
2026-08-15 16:13:50
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itz Tessy :
absolutely true
2026-08-14 12:26:30
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Gracious :
💯
2026-08-15 08:00:44
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suzzie 4201 :
true
2026-08-14 07:18:58
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