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The Divorce Vault :
Yep - she might even be realizing she did NOT do it…😳
2026-08-13 22:18:53
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Coby Kaldeway Kaelbl :
Mine moved on with the next woman and got HER to buy a house 6 doors down from me. He lived there for free and didn't pay for our children. Yet he had all assets from our marriage. I started over with the kids all by myself. Provided care for someone in need in exchange for a place for my children and I to live until I could safe to buy my own home. I worked as a nurse by day, and took care of this person in exchange for a safe place for me and my children. I finally buy my own place and he has the new woman do this. So, I moved again. I now 31 yrs later live a 22 hr drive away from there, yet he drove here 3 yrs ago to park in my driveway for 15mins at Christmas to wreck my joy.
2026-08-13 22:06:30
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The MonAlisha :
Side note, your snack looks guuuuuud
2026-08-13 21:10:50
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Tink :
My ex husband bought a home 0.2 miles from mine. I sold my home and moved 20 miles away.
2026-08-13 23:34:02
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alapasta :
My ex rented a house down the street. Stalked and harassed me through the neighborhood day and night. It was absolutely terrifying.
2026-08-14 01:38:12
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Veruca 🆘🇺🇸🫶 :
emotional and psychological abuse are insidious
2026-08-13 23:55:52
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Endostrongxxx :
When we signed the divorce papers my ex husband recorded the whole interaction on meta AI glasses. He was holding them up weirdly and scanning it. It got to my prove up affidavit that had my address on it. I forgot I put it in with the stack of papers. I grabbed it from him when I realized what it was. But he had already recorded it. He had some of my documents I needed still and offered to drop them off. I told him he can park outside the gate of my apartments and I’d walk to him. He didn’t. He waited till someone came through the gate and followed behind them and parked right next to my car. He didn’t tell me that. He just said he was there. I walked out of my apartment to see him standing there with my ex bsf who had previous assault and drug charges that had stalked and harassed me for years after I dropped her. They now knew which apartment was mine. I’m so grateful to be moving soon. I found a house 15 miles away
2026-08-14 14:31:58
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April Hobbie :
My ex husband used to drive by my house in the middle of the night (when the kids were with him) to see if I had anyone over when I didn’t have the kids…. He woke my kids up loaded them in a car and spied on me. It was so scary I lived 30 minutes away so he couldn’t do that any more. It has been 6 years, and the longer that I have been gone the more I realize how lucky I was to get away
2026-08-14 16:22:07
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TheDyslexicKitchenwitch 🇪🇺 :
how do you have adult children ? you barely look 30. 😳
2026-08-15 12:29:19
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WonderingWildflower :
My ex moved 6 mins away from me with his affair partner. He tried to move onto my street but someone was looking out for me because when he went to apply none of them were available. Im waiting to move until he buys his house end of the year so I can move further away and he can’t follow as easily
2026-08-14 11:53:18
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schmiggy.azalea :
Dear god the entitlement and ownership these men feel over their exes is insane to me like my guy acting insane doesn’t make her want to go back it’s just cementing her choice…
2026-08-13 19:58:21
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Nicole Beck :
I’m sorry so not the pint of your video, but , your kids are in their 20s? Did you have them when you were 10??? I honestly would’ve guessed late 20s for your age I need all the secrets.
2026-08-13 23:34:19
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CorrieJacleen :
My ex fiancé rented a house on the corner of the block I lived on. Dead end. Was literally trapped. I was terrified. I would often leave through the back gate so he wouldn’t see me. I moved 3 months after I found out.
2026-08-14 02:27:46
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ahurewayoga :
When I separated with my ex-husband, he rented a place a kilometre and a half down the road from my house and when he went into a new relationship, and lived in the city they would come to my area every weekend as a day trip or a weekend trip with my daughter on their time with her. I live in a small fishing town with literally a population of 500 people. And when I made a big fuss about it, I was the crazy one! When I started to rebuild my life and go into a new profession, he went into the same profession and showed up into the same environments, and it goes on and on. I’m good now, but it took many years to get here to where I am and to be able to say I’m good now.
2026-08-14 02:05:58
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Nope :
And you should have been scared because the one time an ex of mine moved in next-door to me he 🔪 me 4 times when I was coming home one night at 9 PM in the hallway
2026-08-14 02:32:55
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💕 Miss Andrist 💕 :
The clarity that comes once you’ve gotten out of it is terrifying at times
2026-08-14 02:57:16
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user3456078191175 :
I’ve been divorced for over 8 years. Sometimes some of the situations and things that happened cross my mind and I realize that I was so blessed and lucky to escape with my life. That man was sick and dangerous.
2026-08-14 18:47:56
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Iamdone :
I just got out after a quarter century. I am shocked at what I was allowing,how much he manipulated my mind. Its deep,dsrk psychological shit when another person drives you crazy,makes you think its all your fault,and almost makes you end yourself. Realizing who he is,what he has been doing,its sickening. My intuotion screamed the whole time but my brain couldnt accept it. On the surface we had it all. He was an amazing dad! No woman would leave him.. yeah...omg he is a monster.
2026-08-13 22:35:52
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chanarella95 :
I thought you was her ngl
2026-08-14 00:10:03
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Sus :
Intimidation!!!😳😳😳
2026-08-14 09:36:29
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lopayne11 :
The moment that it suddenly clicks that the man you spent years building with would have killed you eventually is chilling. My family said it multiple times and I never agreed until one day when I was so removed from the situation I could see clearly. He would have if I wouldn’t have left and ever stood in the way of something he wanted
2026-08-14 00:41:00
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ALITA :
We all are thinking this too. 😳
2026-08-13 23:33:49
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RandomChicki :
What’s wrong with living next door? It would be great for the kids.
2026-08-15 17:44:10
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Rhonda :
my x was gonna keep our side lot to build him a house!!! I got it in the divorce and sold it.
2026-08-14 14:23:16
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