@doctormicky2: People with BPD do not love more than other people. They love without the neurological buffer that makes love feel manageable. The idealization is real. The terror of losing the love is real. The splitting is not manipulation. It is a nervous system that cannot hold both versions of a person simultaneously because it was never given the conditions to learn how. The love underneath all of it is the most real thing in the room. Drop a 🤍 if this finally explained what loving someone with BPD feels like from the inside. #BPDrelationships #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #BPD #BPDlove #psychologyfacts

Borderline Love Tools :

My nervous system needs a printable reset button.

Mystical :

Wow…. To the T…. I never understood why I was reacting so intensely to everything in my relationships but this is so dead on

trndsttr29 :

I wrote this to my boyfriend for saying I am selfish- I knew he was scared and numb to logics. he has the biggest imagination and love I've ever experienced. the for this video- I was scared I was wrong about my feeling of nervous departure

PrettyLittleCharms by Pennie B :

Why everyone here keep saying their partner left? Do bpd push spouses away?

WEBIII :

going thru all of this with My Wife. it IS difficult at times, but she IS & will ALWAYS be my person. i have done so much research & realized that I have been loving her in ways that I understand love, but that gets lost in translation between us. I feel awful for not actively doing the work on MY end to be better for her before now. we'll make it

Funsize Me :

I have BPD and I'm in tears right now. That explanation was perfect.

Astersirius 💫🌟 :

I don’t think I will ever be loved

Rose :

I lost my ultimate favorite person and I’m not sure I’ll ever experience love like that again tbh I’ve never loved like that again and I feel perpetually alone soo I hate that i lost this 😔

Melanie :

This is so accurate. Thank you. I’m here with my fellow bpd people. It’s a daily struggle. ♥️

Stray :

You will never catch me saying sorry for loving harder than most

Alexeevici :

I am with BPD, thank you for your video

Arianne Gonzalez :

wow

pinkcherrychyna 2 :

I am the someone who has the disorder 😳and all are true but he's gone so

JadynUnfiltered :

I'm this whole explanation....

Diana Walker :

I hate this about myself.

unstablePersonalityBPD :

Charity Morris :

my 10 yr olds daughter I lost cause of a long list of reasons but ultimately my fault and I will never have love like that again 😭. it's okay tho I am getting way better these days

Gemma :

Facts

Mrmanutd :

I have BPD , ADHD, CPTSD am pure empathy all in love ❤️until I crack when all 3 combine together heart 💔 one small thing can set me off for days 😢

user4305379125305 :

so 20 years in giving up everything and everyone just to try to make them feel secure and they cannot will not see that in which all in all does absolutely nothing they still feel the same way is it really worth it not trying to be cold harsh or cruel but think about it is it really worth it I've lost everything and have nothing

FabulousMatt4U :

I was best friends with someone that had BPD then dated her for a little more than 4 months then she broke it off with me. a few to several people told me that she isn't the right one for me.

BunnySavage :

so very true.

Jennifer Mccollum :

💯 true

martinamartinita :

I wish I could have semt this to him before he left me. Maybe he would have understood 😞

Berrie Mello :

okay but I dated someone That has BPD AND is an Avoidant type. send help