@filmedbyerica: #harshsisteradvice

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user4159984039738 :
This is where dating is wild. With all respect to the ladies and it goes for men as well. Dont put yourself in a position to have to 'cancel' if you never wanted to go on the date with them in the first place. Be a grown up and say "respectfully not interested". Likewise if you've changed your mind after chatting same thing. Dating shouldn't be a mind game. If someone is willing to put time aside for you the least you can do is be respectful and honest. Rant over.
2026-08-21 05:35:05
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pastypollack
pastypollack :
I'm new here. For anybody else new, I checked her other videos. She has both arms. Yw
2026-08-14 03:01:56
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osiris4722
osiris4722 :
could have used this about 5 years ago but the ball rolls on
2026-08-20 21:59:18
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jrkeiner
JustACrewChief :
people make time for what's important to them.
2026-08-20 18:36:59
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kev_7777
🇺🇲Kevin🇺🇲 :
punishment again. 😔 i was doing good😭 I have not seen these videos in months.
2026-08-21 02:16:03
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fitinspo.08
fitinspo.08 :
If she doesn't suggest a new time, she's not interested
2026-08-14 02:26:01
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jodokast1616
Jodo :
If she's not interested then why schedule in the first place? Don't waste my time.
2026-08-19 18:10:23
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crustyrustysrestoration
Crusty Rusty’s Restoration :
Never had a cancellation, i usually get the “You’re great and such a gentleman… but….” After 😂
2026-08-14 19:44:35
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paul_6.0
PaulAlien_0.6 :
Same time tomorrow coach?
2026-08-14 00:37:44
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twistedsync
TwistedSync :
so what does it mean if she's the one who approached me first, then after a few days of talking she suggested that we grab coffee, I agree and suggest a day, then she doesn't text back for 5 days
2026-08-20 18:44:25
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bandleboy
EvanExa :
1. They should apologize to show respect for your time. 2. They should be proactive and offer to reschedule. If they miss either of these, they either don’t care about your time or don’t care about you.
2026-08-14 17:59:06
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user8804298650621
Lucky :
Is it just me or is Erica not a dime piece, my god she looks good🥰🥰
2026-08-14 15:06:04
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joshplays44
JoshPlays44 :
So how about this? She cancelled, apologized and asked for rain check. I said yes but she didn’t schedule a time. Saw her a week later (yesterday), she apologized and brought up she was crazy busy and I asked if she still wanted to cash in the rain check. She said yes, but now I’ve not heard from her. I imagine this falls into the “not interested” category? 🙃
2026-08-16 00:01:48
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uncommonsensecents
Joe :
So she said she couldn’t today she said does Tuesday work for u ???
2026-08-17 01:22:27
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carl.moist
Eistee :
Im getting extremely mixed signals and all these videos aren’t helping because it just reinforces the fucking mixed signals
2026-08-17 09:20:14
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timf_wl
Tim :
I’m 35 damn years old and I still keep making this mistake
2026-08-14 09:42:34
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thisisandrewkai
ThisisAndrewKai :
What if she cancels and does try to reschedule, several times but then cancels on that too. Several times
2026-08-14 15:04:59
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shodankid
shodankid :
This is why companies have to hire consultants because communication and structure have become so convoluted that no one knows wtf is even happening anymore and you mine as well just sell to private equity.
2026-08-16 07:22:59
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filmedbyerica
Erica :
Sorry I haven’t posted in a minute building Harsh Sister Advice HQ 🫡
2026-08-13 23:31:05
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rjs_laughter
Nick :
Like you said, we’re adults here. She could just tell the truth and say she’s not interested…like an adult
2026-08-17 17:14:48
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user4299087893621
user4299087893621 :
What if she expresses a solid explanation followed by “i’m gonna have to reschedule” (day after a great date btw she suggested the second and agreed no hesitation to my idea in person) but then doesn’t follow up with a day or time? Left that dead for a week now. Was the ball in my court here?
2026-08-17 19:28:10
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julien.belanger
Julien Bélanger :
The person that cancel is the one that needs to reschedule or at least give availability
2026-08-17 20:07:02
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danecarten
Dane Carten, DMA :
it's wild how much this happens in online dating. like, you swiped on me? and now you're canceling last minute and ghosting? get off these apps then like wtf are you doing lmao
2026-08-14 20:32:47
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filipsthenics
Filipsthenics :
As someone that just started seeing someone new after years, these kind of videos are true. You really DO know when they like you, they really DO try to make it obvious or close to it, and they really try to reschedule if something happens. Sometimes it gets so obvious that you think they're pranking you until that first kiss happens.
2026-08-17 12:05:49
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salmon789
Sam :
I wish I was gay
2026-08-15 20:36:55
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