Got me looking like a puppy following them around 💀
2026-08-14 13:29:31
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banananutcunt :
I’m an extravort and i love my socially anxious friends… i do try to get them to expand their horizons but I definitely understand when they don’t want to socialize with folks.. because i will occasionally get that social anxiety too… it hits me out of nowhere 😭
2026-08-21 12:55:07
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mandragora :
also, do not bring them solely as your own safety net and run off as soon as you find someone better
2026-08-14 07:33:53
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calien !! :
what is it with extroverts and thinking they can ‘cure’ us
2026-08-16 01:14:39
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Jbill :
The loneliness in those moments is so painful
2026-08-14 07:42:18
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Heizou :
also please don't invite someone else in a gathering that's just meant for us specifically
2026-08-14 07:00:47
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Veronica's Signature Designs :
when I was a teenager this happened a lot with a particular friend. it was usually that she would say we were doing one thing and then end up doing something else and she always put me on the spot in from of other people so I'd look like the buzz kill if I said I didn't want to go. when I brought it up once she said she didn't tell me in advance because I would say no. so when I realized that it wasn't spontaneous plans, but actually intentionally withholding information I stopped going out with her. we continued being friends and we hung out if I invited her but not the other way around. gave her another chance because I thought that was unfair and she did it again. but this time I told her I wasn't going (in front of her other friend) and that "she was free to go but I'll be going home" and I guess it was embarrassing or maybe she felt guilty since I came from far to hang out with her. I know it was totally unexpected to her because she was flustered and didn't know what to do. basically she had to cancel her plans (that she made without me). but at least it has never happened again. funny enough now that she TELLS me about the other plans I'm much more inclined to go because I can mentally prepare to interact with others I don't know. I may not want to but relationships are give and take.
2026-08-20 21:48:41
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siljelilje2001 :
Why is this a universal experience for socially anxious people
2026-08-14 23:50:44
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ndonjijunior1 :
they called me needy....I stopped hanging out with them
2026-08-14 06:08:19
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Mary genius kendi :
the introvert me better remain at home alone ,,,
2026-08-21 05:01:25
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🩵❄️_VyraXYZ_❄️🩵 :
also, if we make a deal to go out but it's ONLY us two, do NOT bring "extra company" without telling us
2026-08-14 15:58:15
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Valentine's Day bride 🍓 :
I am sharing this, thank you for saying this, this is how I have always felt, I hate going anywhere
2026-08-21 02:50:16
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busiiee._ :
Extroverts just love making us feel like something is wrong with us. Like no man, i like the people i know and my own space.
2026-08-16 13:28:20
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📿 :
and they expect you to "just talk to people""😩😩 yhoo
2026-08-14 14:33:57
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⋆.ೃ࿔*:・Nothing⋆.ೃ࿔*:・ :
my friends at school do this to me
2026-08-19 15:37:19
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BarbieShazy :
if you leave me behind I will just leave the place immediately.
2026-08-14 05:55:16
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Ralph :
sometimes I feel bad for myself
2026-08-20 13:52:35
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𓍢ִ໋ ola ☆໒꒱.˚ :
why do they always do this
2026-08-15 14:11:06
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kita :
The reason I stopped hanging out with a friend.
2026-08-14 00:48:52
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Machyo :
After reading some comments I just realised how much people downplay social anxiety. If these people truly cared about their friends, they wouldn't say face your fear. Those panic attacks are really painful and embarrassing, plus they set us back years of accumulated social comfort. We also want to leave the cocoon, but it's not that easy.
2026-08-14 14:14:34
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JUMA :
Reason I dont have friends. I wish they understood this.
2026-08-14 05:03:32
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Dominik 🏳️⚧️🇵🇸 :
Also don’t guilt and manipulate them to go out and then go “I’m not babysitting you all day, so you better not ruin it.” 💀💀💀
2026-08-14 16:51:12
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bis^bis :
and then expect you to go with them again like hell nah
2026-08-16 16:30:34
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Kaitana :
You'll never see me again
2026-08-14 07:27:02
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