With any avoidant rather that being the fearful avoidant or dismissive avoidant, you have to do reverse psychology. When they deactivate and randomly ghost, pull back, or say they no longer want to see you, you simply sit back and agree. They expect you to chase. But that’s the last thing you need to do is put more pressure on the individual.. You simply say I understand your perspective (even when you don’t) and let them know that what they are doing is best for them. Don’t teach out. Don’t watch a story. Don’t like a post. Don’t unfollow. Literally do nothing. They will be back in 2-4 weeks. And before someone comments that their avoidant never reached back out. Either A. That person really isn’t even an avoidant and you just slapped a label on somebody for comfort and closure on your end. OR B. You were not with that person long enough to establish any type of real feelings on their end. Feelings and closeness is what pushes an avoidant away.
2026-08-15 15:42:15
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Ce.Ti.Va :
*deletes text cause they just texted me*
2026-08-14 13:20:38
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Ja’Nae :
I just removed myself lol I’m done talking, it don’t work 😂
2026-08-14 16:23:48
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Dannie :
I've learned to just bow out quietly. I overexplained enough.
2026-08-14 18:06:29
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Skywalker :
you just gotta use avoidants like they use everyone else. it really be that simple. stay detached and have fun with um
2026-08-14 10:06:07
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Barbie 🎀 :
He broke no contact and I left him on read
2026-08-14 18:22:36
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💜MIOKI💜 :
I just blocked his ass today 🤣🤣🤣
2026-09-02 03:50:05
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pick1esauce_ :
I keep trying to do that and then he calls me and tells me I need to take a deep breath and everything’s fine but then doesn’t text me back and makes me wait.
2026-09-02 10:35:27
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Dragon Fly :
I had to accept that they can’t help themselves. They can’t get out of that cycle and it’s not my job to help them. I have to choose me.
2026-08-20 19:55:38
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Herbert Derbert :
How many final texts am I going to send? 😮💨
2026-08-15 20:37:38
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0dsoon :
Me few days ago
2026-09-01 06:01:52
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WendyJean :
I sent mine this morning. I used the phrase “and that was really shitty” three times. And “you’re not acting like the person I thought you were. ✌️
2026-08-14 18:07:46
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jadore_kai :
Someone come back and remind me not to text him please
2026-08-17 03:52:33
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There_he_is :
Ain’t even worth the text. I moved on when she stopped replying. Now she texting. I’m cool off her.
2026-08-14 20:11:38
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Marie Magdalena Wolf :
Avoidants will suck your soul dry (willingly or not) BUT you will learn valuable lessons about your own tendencies to abandon yourself to be chosen which will allow you to choose much healthier partners. So there's that. 😁
2026-08-20 05:20:20
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J_ME :
Damn the fact that I’ve been told that I’m an avoidant . Yall be going in on us but we really be trying to regulate our emotions we will be right back .😂
2026-08-14 22:03:33
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Shanika Harris :
Start text…delete text …*thinks about how crazy I wanna be* lol
2026-08-20 15:49:25
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Theo :
Tried to be as respectful as possible 🥲
2026-08-21 10:32:18
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Caliçhe 🦂 :
If you say that to a true avoidant. Prepare to never hear from them again.
2026-08-15 19:29:03
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DevImposter :
Your message didn't go through because you're already blocked
2026-08-14 14:38:18
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