@meg.healing: Maybe men could do the MOST good in this movement if they would just call out their buddies #narcissisticabuse #lindsayclancy #truemasculinity

brianmcgowan245 :

Reddington is either a good lawyer or Patrick killed them poor kids. It can’t be both.

stevejb04 :

three kids. A five year old, a three year old, and a baby. Exercise bands around their necks. And the internet's first instinct is to ask how she's doing. Cora was five. She was old enough to understand what was happening to her. She watched her mother come for her. And thousands of women read that story and their first thought was "but the medication though". No. Stop. A woman wrapped exercise bands around a baby's neck. An eight month old. Callan couldn't crawl away. He couldn't say stop. He couldn't do anything. And the comment section says "this poor lady is very sick she needs psychiatric care". POOR LADY? The poor baby needed to not be strangled by his mother. And then, THEN, these same people turn around and attack the father. The man who walked into a house full of blood and dead children and called 911 begging his kids to breathe. That man. They're mad at THAT man. For what? For surviving? For not dying alongside them? For daring to find someone who loves him after the worst thing that can happen to a human being? He forgave her. He publicly defended her. He said she wasn't a monster. He raised money for her. And they're dragging him for remarrying. What was he supposed to do? Build a shrine and stop existing? He gave that woman more grace than any human being has ever earned and the public response is "how dare he move on." And they know, they KNOW, that if a man had done this, there would be no sympathy campaign. There would be no op eds about how the system failed him. There would be no comment sections saying his wife should have known. He'd be Timothy Jones. He'd be Chris Watts. He'd be a monster, sentenced in two hours, case closed. Nobody would write "this poor man is very sick". Nobody would blame the mother for going to the store. The double standard isn't subtle. It's not hidden. It's right there in plain text and they still can't see it because seeing it would break something they need to believe about themselves, that their empathy is universal, that their compassion is principled, that they care about victims. They don't care about victims. They care about women. The three actual victims in this story are children.

Nils :

...because the "evidence" is not showing "more and more" that Patrick did it!

Mickey-3()67886433 :

I think is because they see themselves in Patrick behaviors

chris :

What is the evidence that Patrick was abusive? I have not seen any so far.

:) :

Her Lawyer: She did it Civil Case she filed: She did it Lindsay: I did it Patrick: She told me she did it Evidence: Proved she did it Tik Tok: The moon was in retrograde....PATRICK DID IT.

LYTAS___ :

No evidence is towards the man…. Stop spreading fake news

MetaDad :

her lawyer said she did it!!!! yall are legit bugging

xoxo :

Because they always protect the man, ALWAYSSSS

harrows76 :

Why are white women the large majority of people who support Lindsay Clancy? When you say evidence against Patrick Clancy are you referring to real evidence presented in court or do you mean the made, exaggerated or misinterpreted evidence on tik tok?

werdgerl :

I'm trying to understand but I've seen no evidence that he was abusive, a narcissist, or anything like that? his behavior all seems explainable to me and I don't think you can tell anything from a person's eyes

ReqDen :

They fantasize about being that abuser. I said it

Christopher Thomas :

This woman was not physically or verbally abused by her husband, you people put that narrative out there.

pmac :

Because the evidence does not, even remotely point to him.

Swimminwitfishss :

Zero evidence by the way

AM :

they don't want Patrick to be guilty because they see similarities in him.

UltraEnigma :

The evidence doesn't point toward the husband... at all. Her attorney is playing an act. We learn how to manipulate and tell a story to a jury in law school. His job is to show her as a meek bird needing protection because of her mental health. That's his strategy.

Extremely Casual :

It’s because in the opening statement of the trial her own lawyer said she knows she killed her kids…

666exmo :

I haven't followed it honestly. 🫤 no excuses but by way of explanation, men are blinded by the patriarchy. patriarchy says that women are "too much" or "never enough" or "crazy creatures". it makes men distrust women, even sub consciously. but you are right, we don't take enough notice nor stand by women enough. we men can and should do better. I wish more would listen.

bluebird1 :

They are against Lindsay, that's what I noticed

MOJO JOJO :

Prosecutor: She killed them. Defense Attorney: She killed them. Husband: She killed them. Lindsey: I killed them. Random Tiktok Woman:.... the husband did it!!

Travis Wayne :

because we look at the facts of a case and not our feelings

k.2.the.l :

Because they are intelligent

BLANCA SCHAISS :

they want her to be guilty

Martins :