@smolthefemboy: Saying “I am here if you need help” alone, doesn’t help as much as you might think it does #MentalHealth

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_blahajlover
blahaj :
I feel like a burden if I ask for help, so ive struggle by myself
2026-08-14 09:28:59
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kanjivans561
Kanji :
Yes this is a very controversial one for when it comes to healthy communicate . I believe instead of saying “let me know if you need something” just do the thing you thought they might need. Instead of making it a suggestion and giving them the weight of reaching out. A example is like if they’re sick bring some soup
2026-08-14 09:27:22
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damiengrosshans
BEAN 🤍 🧡 🤎 :
I've been clean for 2 days from self harm
2026-08-16 00:13:06
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mysecretfemboyaccount
My_Secret_Femboy_Account :
Hey Smol, is a femboy still a femboy if they like women?
2026-08-15 04:24:50
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dont_lean_on_the_
Dont_Lean_On_The_Glass :
I feel so fucking bad with how I much said this, what the hell am I doing?
2026-08-14 19:07:06
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a2._b.mp_cc
Ушер :
what do I do then?
2026-08-14 10:50:26
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omegaact2
Omega_Act_2 :
If I open up to people again, I'm just going to lose friends. It's happened so many times that I know it's going to happen again and again. I'm scared because everything just keeps getting worse and worse and I don't know what to do, everyone says they are here for me, but if I open up they will use it to hurt me.
2026-08-17 05:58:57
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totgbi8p6rgj
Spooky scary skeleton :
literally I tried comforting 2 depressed people but it's so hard to know what to say so I mostly just listen to them vent or try and have a normal convo instead
2026-08-15 01:38:22
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rubrub75
rubrub75 :
I have depression and there are so many people that said something like that and I didn't talk to any of them. the ones I talked to were doses I was close to and comfortable with. my Best friend didn't have to say that I just knew he would be there
2026-08-14 15:28:28
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biely_kabel
kabel :
Are you streaming on kick?
2026-08-14 09:36:01
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themuffunman234
muffin🏳️‍⚧️ :
so wait what if I try to get them to talk to me about it
2026-08-14 09:26:32
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still.blue8
Blue :
i think often people want you to ask them if theyre ok and then they can talk from there cus the physical process of reaching out about something like that can be scary
2026-08-16 19:16:27
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radonhexaflouride
radon_hexaflouride :
people say it but never mean it
2026-08-14 09:24:24
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raphinitum
Raphael De Los Santo :
I agree but for me its a bit of toddler logic 😂 “we can either go to the movies or walk in the park” give me a choice but a choice between two acceptable answers that will still get me up an about
2026-08-14 10:03:24
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senpaibunnzy
senpaibunnzy ෆ ˚ ˖ ࣪ :
Real ;—;
2026-08-14 09:26:13
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mojo_ox
𝓶𝓸𝓳𝓸 :
Had a break up not long ago...
2026-08-14 23:54:44
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femboylouu
Lou :3 :
Yesss I really agree with thisss
2026-08-14 09:25:49
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nmdnp161
{Ăł³x̌♤♡} :
100% agree
2026-08-14 09:39:59
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benehq
Bene :
in my experience its always better to offer something specific you can do for someone. Or even better offer 2 things. That way the decision doesnt become "do i accept help or not" it becomes "which kind of help do i pick"
2026-08-14 21:49:34
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chopsbh
ChopsBH :
I tell people this so much when people act out or seem irrational it's imporant to ask "why" and 9/10 times people under 18 do it cause they need smth to do to not think about other things things like movies tv shows on vc or gaming or watching draw showing interest in an incredible helping way please encourage taking the step for someone who can't you could save a life and never know it xD
2026-08-14 10:04:54
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davide_mlm
Davide🏳️‍🌈 :
i really really try to reach out to a freind of mine who i know isn't as fine as he sais, i know him that good. i just dont know how i csn help him talk with me cause yes he has other friends that he could talk to but there online, i live 15minutes from him.away i know alot about him and his problems, and i jsut dont know how to get to talk cause i also know he doesnt talk to otheres(yes i know that) i just want to help him.but i just dont know how
2026-08-14 17:09:28
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j_junie67
Junie [🇵🇭] :
I think the best approach to someone who needs help, is to comfort them first, I may not be a professional, but it's a helpful way to be trusted by someone whos in need.
2026-08-15 17:14:16
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abracadavervt
abracadavervt :
I say I’m always here if you need help. As a gesture of showing I care and being there when they need it. Because at the end of the day. You don’t really know what a persons schedule is and I don’t wanna be rude and intrude on whatever important things they are up too. This is just my personal opinion.
2026-08-16 16:12:39
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