@joinmentalica: The three moves someone makes the second you confront them #darvo #narcissisticabuse #manipulationtactics Raise one issue and watch the order. It never varies. First they deny — "that never happened, you're remembering it wrong." Then they attack — "you're the one with the problem here." Then, the move that actually works, they become the victim: "after everything I've done for you." It has a name. DARVO: deny, attack, reverse victim and offender. And the fact that the order never changes is the tell — that's a rehearsed routine, not a wounded reaction. Ten minutes in, you're comforting the person you came to confront, and the original thing has vanished. So don't argue with move three. Don't defend yourself against move two. Say one line and keep saying it: "We're still on the first thing." They're not defending themselves. They're changing seats with you.

Jesus is lord :

Rehearsed!! when I see the first sign I disengage automatically. When the denial starts..I walk . Peace is a priority.

phillyshuffle :

my ex is a master at that

nikkinicole808 :

Ewwww. Makes sense. Finna slap that uno reverse card right back and make him collect four

Jimmy Baird :

Rehearse

michaelhyson66 :

reversed. I've seen this dark psychology too many times.

lisag79 :

rehearsed

sexy plus :

you're so spot on sir

koolcat :

reversed

kevinmwc3ph :

Claire :

rehearsed lol

123 :

so what should I do?

rwk128 :

Marcel Naalden ❌️ The Magician :

i know a lot off them and removed them out off my live

Teresia Brangman :

rehearse

Mr Newfoundland :

Holy you been there

🇲🇶♊️Gold🌠dusk♊️🇲🇶 :

Rehearsed

Claire :

reversed

LR :

reversed

Mishqa :

Observation, you see through their bullshit. If they start the reverse role, disengage, end the conversation. Starve the manipulator of the reaction the need to keep the illusion alive.

🔥Dark❌Phoenix🔥 :

Rehearsed!!

K GARRETT Beck :

absolutely 💯

💎🐺🏦Blk$Diamond1💎 :

Rehearsed

Jason :

rehearsal

Quinno Brunner :

rehurst? it's my mother

Sandhya :

Rehearsed