@kisatsutai: When people tell you you’re "too much," it’s usually just because you’re spilling over a container that was always too small for you. You don't need to apologize for how deeply you exist, nor do you need to quiet down to make others comfortable. Every trait you’ve been told to suppress is just raw power looking for its real home. Stop trying to shrink yourself to fit the room. Find the place—or build the thing—that can actually hold your fire.