@mrs.sophia66: The worst thing that can happen to you is being too nice. Some people will not appreciate your kindness. They will take adrantage of it They will mistake your,good heart for an opportunity to use you. When you are always available, always forgiving and always understanding, some people begin to believe they can disrespect you without consequences. But kindness does not mean allowing people to walk over you. Having a soft heart does not mean having no limits. There comes a moment when you have to remind people that if they push you too far, they will meet a side of you they never a side of you they never expected.