@desiree.selfrespect: When they feel they’ve “got you” the mask slips. #dvawareness

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slpbuffy
Christa :
This is exactly why religion has indoctrinated people into the idea of “waiting until marriage,” so they can trap us after it’s too late
2026-08-16 19:38:20
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cruzer239
JustMe 🇵🇷 🆘 🇺🇸 :
The “pick better” people don’t understand how much a narc fakes his personality.
2026-08-14 21:21:24
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rpjongtecangmai
rpjongtecangmai :
he got a new car for the first time,, he keeps ignoring me ..we eventually broke up now , it's been one week he never comeback... mind you all.. men true coulor when something huge come in their life that makes them think I Can! is when u see his true color
2026-08-20 13:51:20
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bobogichohi
Wambui Wá Gichohi :
I love women who take the initiative to leave men early enough.
2026-08-20 03:17:31
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suezinohio
IAmButterflySue :
@IAmButterflySue: Ladies. Listen to her. I should have left my husband the first time he called me a c*nt. We had planned to go out driving through subdivisions to check out construction because we would soon be building our own home and I wanted to get ideas. Well, he was driving and he turned the wrong way. I said “hey, I think you’re going the wrong way. We want to be going the other direction.” He looked at me and said “no, I’m sure it’s this way.” I KNEW he was wrong. This was back before GPS and you had to print maps from Mapquest. Anyhow, I shut my mouth and thought to myself “fine. Let him be wrong.” Sure enough after 20 minutes of driving the wrong direction, he blows up and starts screaming that we were going the wrong way and why didn’t I stop him. I told him I TRIED to say something and that made him madder. He gunned the engine and did a spin out into a parking lot and called me a stupid c*nt for letting him get lost. I’ll never forget it. The tears burned my eyes. My chest pounded and I was heartbroken. And scared. I SHOULD HAVE WALKED AWAY. I didn’t. I stayed. I’m still with him almost 40 years later. We have a home with doors and walls filled with holes from his rage through the years. Although he never hit me directly, the years of verbal and emotional abuse took a huge toll on me and it also affected my children greatly. I should have walked away the day he called me that name. Ladies please. If they show you their spots, believe it. They will
2026-08-19 11:33:58
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nursenik73
Nikki :
my first marriage. ugh..he flat out said "i own you now"
2026-08-16 22:35:44
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transcendwithtoi
ToiBox :
“You missed the red flags that’s your fault.” Nope not always. People are truly fake out here.
2026-08-18 17:09:25
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raekay430
Rae Kay430 :
1st time was the day we moved across the country alone together
2026-08-19 20:29:36
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solara2211
solara :
Moving in with each other, illness, pregnancy, engagement, marriage. These are the times where they will snatch that mask off. It’s important women know this. You were actually fortunate that he dropped his mask while you weren’t PHYSICALLY vulnerable.
2026-08-15 20:13:09
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fivestargal03
FIVE STAR⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ :
Yes their good at manipulating energy matching it to yours,they lie about everything
2026-08-20 07:37:40
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briellej
BrielleJ :
we got married and moved in😭poor, poor decision. day 1 I knew I was leaving.
2026-08-18 08:41:19
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turquoisehummingburd
Precious :
Stay single, ladies. I saw another side of my ex right after the marriage ceremony.
2026-08-18 06:21:24
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pizzakint
Pizza kint :
you didnt choose him, he chose you as his victim
2026-08-20 12:25:03
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cillaa560
cillaa560 :
I remember my late husband promising he quit smoking 🚬 throughout our engagement.. the night of our wedding reception he lit up a cigarette 🚬 🙄🫤
2026-08-16 18:01:24
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kusha1000
Christ Re Written :
My ex made me realize people can pretend even for years
2026-08-19 18:38:46
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inhermitmodefortheseason
inhermitmodefortheseason :
That’s why religion brainwashed us to MARRY THEM so we were trapped
2026-08-17 19:06:22
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makiahthegreat
Kiki Shops ☀️ :
He choked me out 3 days after we got married.
2026-08-16 21:01:53
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oops_im_not_sorry
Mic :
Got married August 11th last year, found out I was pregnant FIVE days later and his mask slipped. It was like he was a completely different person. That pregnancy ended in *TW* miscarriage and he told me to his face it did not make him upset. It took me 6 months to figure out how to get out of the marriage. Officially divorced for 7 months now :
2026-08-15 16:09:38
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pizzakint
Pizza kint :
pick better is sexist, men need to be better!!!!
2026-08-20 12:24:29
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stack_o_roni_and_cheese
Stack_O_Roni_and_Cheese :
“ you chose him “ she chose his facade..
2026-08-15 14:56:18
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chrissycaplesmcdougall
Chrissy Caples Mcdougall :
I'm scared of men.
2026-08-15 20:14:10
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wthisthisbs2
withthis :
he's been in a rage from day 1 but hid it. finally he can let it out
2026-08-19 19:07:38
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chocolatebunny851
Apples and peaches :
I tell men all the time you really don’t know your homeboy like you think you do only his woman knows who he really is!
2026-08-15 22:21:03
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sassy_joker_
Sassy :
this happened to me. he beat my tail a week later. i moved out the very next day!
2026-08-16 23:36:23
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sheirjbenwiahwbw
Sheirjbenwiahwbw :
Mine didn’t drop the mask until we had kids. It took years, years! The viciousness was unmatched. He hates himself
2026-08-15 06:57:17
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