@loudthoughtsforyou: The Hardest Grief Is Mourning Someone Still Alive Sometimes the hardest pain is not mourning someone who has died. It is mourning someone who is still alive. Someone you can still see. Still message. Still remember. But no longer have in the way you once did. There is no funeral for this kind of loss. No clear ending. No moment where the world tells you it is time to grieve. You are simply expected to move on while a part of your heart is still attached to someone who still exists. That is what makes it so painful. You are not grieving their existence. You are grieving the relationship. The closeness. The future you imagined. The version of them you once knew. And sometimes healing begins when you accept that someone can still be alive and still no longer belong in your life. #realtalk #Relationship #Healing #Grief #Heartbreak