kurt.xwaa on ig :
It feels like ginawa mo naman lahat. You gave your time, effort, patience, understanding, and most of all, your love. You tried your best to make her feel loved and valued. Kahit pagod ka, you still chose to stay. Kahit may times na nasasaktan ka, pinipili mo pa rin siyang intindihin. You kept giving because you genuinely loved her, and you never expected anything huge in return.
Pero eventually, mapapagod ka rin.
Kasi habang ginagawa mo lahat para sa kanya, parang ikaw naman yung unti-unting nauubos. You gave so much of yourself just to make the relationship work, pero parang hindi mo nararamdaman na pareho kayong nagbibigay. Hindi naman kailangan na pantay na pantay ang lahat—hindi naman dapat sinusukat ang love sa presyo ng regalo, libre, o kung magkano ang ginastos. Pero minsan, you just want to feel that the other person also thinks about you, chooses you, and makes an effort for you. Kahit isang simpleng libre. Kahit maliit na regalo. Kahit simpleng bagay na nagsasabing, “Naalala kita.” Hindi naman dahil gusto mong may matanggap, pero dahil gusto mong maramdaman na may effort din galing sa kanya. And maybe that's what hurts the most. Hindi dahil wala siyang nabigay na material things, kundi dahil parang ikaw lang yung laging gumagawa ng paraan. Ikaw yung nagbibigay, ikaw yung nag-aadjust, ikaw yung umiintindi, ikaw yung nagso-sorry, ikaw yung nagsisikap na ayusin kapag may problema. You kept telling yourself na okay lang, na baka darating din yung time na
mararamdaman mong appreciated ka.
Pero habang tumatagal, mapapaisip ka rin: “Ako naman, kailan?”You loved her in the best way you knew how. You gave what you could, kahit minsan ikaw mismo may kailangan din. And maybe you didn't need expensive gifts or grand gestures. You just wanted reassurance that your effort wasn't going unnoticed.Kaya masakit kapag sinabi mong ginawa mo naman lahat pero parang wala pa rin. Parang kahit anong gawin mo, hindi pa rin sapat. At doon mo marerealize na sometimes, love alone isn't enough to make a relationship work. Kailangan din ng effort, communication, appreciation, understanding, at willingness ng dalawang tao na alagaan yung relationship.
2026-08-18 10:57:26