@confidentlyuna: Life lessons. It's not your responsibility to analyse and internalise a man's actions or try to decipher his every move. At best it’s wasting your mental and creative energy. At worst, it’s controlling your mood, happiness and self-esteem. Cousin, EVERYONE isn’t meant for you until you meet the person who is. Your only responsibility is to centre yourself. Focus on what you do and SHOULD control: your standards,boundaries, decisions, actions, happiness and most importantly, your TIME 💡@Your Favourite Cousin #lifelesson #lifelessons Life lesson Life lessons life lessons that hit hard
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Saturday 15 August 2026 08:31:53 GMT
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Your Favourite Cousin :
Life lessons. It's not your responsibility to analyse and internalise a man's actions or try to decipher his every move. At best it’s wasting your mental and creative energy. At worst, it’s controlling your mood, happiness and self-esteem.
2026-08-15 08:36:04
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°࿐ꨄ︎✰ Dinah♡༄ྀིྀི :
💯💯💯you cannot control how a man behaves but you can decide to not accept how he has decided to treat you
2026-08-16 15:19:27
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HealingThroughNature Botanica :
Heavy on the don’t internalize a mans actions
2026-08-15 22:40:02
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Mikayla :
Viewing all of life’s events this way is so helpful. I am just a human experiencing things!
2026-08-15 18:43:13
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KJ :
I screenshotted this to write in my journal later - thanks for the prompt Queen 🫶
2026-08-21 23:20:01
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salad4seasons :
you're part of the solution, thank you
2026-08-21 23:33:29
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anonymous bi girl :
FACTS. I feel like intellectualizing and getting anxious over dating has zapped my creativity. This is my reminder to lock tf in….. thank you queen…
2026-08-16 15:06:26
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Simone :
Once I learned this, I took dating less seriously and have been having more fun lol
2026-08-16 13:03:21
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Kells :
And remember! It’s not about whether they care for you… it’s about what they do when that care becomes costly or inconvenient for them.
2026-08-16 02:57:54
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einbisschenmathilda :
thanks queen, needed this after the worst date with the biggest gaslighter
2026-08-21 17:51:52
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sophie_smothers :
And this is why it’s so important to love yourself first !
2026-08-15 22:47:05
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404barbey :
So why do they treat the next girl better ?
2026-08-16 20:45:29
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kmommar :
You have to prefer being single over dating guys that aren’t right for you. I was single for years because I’d walk away from guys at first signs of red flags (I didn’t want someone who needed a lot of growth). So when I met my husband I didn’t know he was the one, I’m six years in and two babies and I’m still waiting for a red flag. My man is a saint, a unicorn, a provider, a family man. If my husband is present, I genuinely get to take a back seat with parenting the kids because he loves being a parent and is really good at it, maybe even better than me.
2026-08-16 08:17:34
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mrs candence :
what is she saying?
2026-08-20 22:07:21
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Ade :
With individual events, it’s easier to maintain this mindset. But when it’s a recurring pattern, you start to feel like the common denominator
2026-08-16 12:36:40
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Annette* :
Yes cuz why is every heart break story lowkey the same 😭
2026-08-19 17:20:29
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addie :
i wish i was better at not internalizing shit bc i know what i deserve and act like i know but at the end of the day im still sad as f
2026-08-16 06:45:57
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bobajelly61 :
I'm hot as hell funny and cute even if a man cheats or ghosts
2026-08-16 20:38:24
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whomadi'mnotmadyoumadperiodd♡ :
dating is just like playing a game to me, dont take these men seriously ever focus on yourself
2026-08-16 04:05:53
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gianna🍓🦦 :
this is a bar honestly
2026-08-15 21:59:16
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Blodyn :
it's the collateral shit that makes you lose it
2026-08-15 21:51:17
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User1661 :
Oh immediateeeee follow. Immediate.
2026-08-16 17:22:07
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