@wesaiditanyways: Being wrong gives you control

indra Ramhit :

This means in general, also meeting people like friends ,not about marriage ..

B :

the more l listen to you the more you become more handsome 🥰🥰🥰🥰

Kids Fashion Gallery🦋💕💦 :

Thank you for sharing

Denis Rench Psychologist :

People who were always blamed for their fault and that of other's, grew up knowing that they needed to fix everything and everyone. Therefore, they keep taking up responsibility for other people's behavior just so they can try to fix something to avoid blame. Letting go of this responsibility is not just an easy task for them because fixing was not just a behavior but it was embodied in their personality.

Marie France Evariste :

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us.

vcr1974 :

not to totally be off subject, but dude, you have beautiful eyes.

Kim :

One of my hardest lessons and I still struggle with it today. I think when you have no control over the circumstances of your childhood, you begin to believe that your actions can change the outcome Yet, life shows some of us repeatedly, that outcomes have more variables than our actions.

deebmoney :

Wow! This was profound and accurate!! Thank you!

Bibi :

Its not blame, but taking responsibility for your actions😁😁😁

Glowing Girl :

This is so insightful. I recently blamed myself for someone else being incapable of giving me more. Upon taking a closer look - I could not have changed it. Must simply accept the other person was the issue and I was very communicative and tried my best.

little bit texas :

thank you. need to hear that

Edgardo Camacho :

I feel exactly like this right now

yeetingsze3 :

I agree

Echo :

couldn't agree more

123 :

True

Trui :

yeah i did try.. but i had to forgive myself for trying to hard...i didn't help him with it ..and i had to let him go for myself

indra Ramhit :

Thank you Thank You ,this is so true,well said my dear ...Some people are so ungrateful ,so much you do ???? 🙏🙏🙏🥰🥰🥰🥰

yeetingsze3 :

True 🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️

Nomaswazi Akhidenor 🇿🇦🇳🇬 :

So true, it's easier to see fault in yourself but healing teaches you that you weren't always at fault.

bulljossette :

Thank you so true

Joan Ayers :

Thank you for this beautiful message 💕🙏🏻💕🌸 we need to have to give ourselves so much more GRACE 🥰❤️🙏🏻

panksdmz :

I needed to hear this today. Thank you!

Nelly :

i really needed to hear this 😊

Malak-UK :

Saipanmi :

I think this applies to grief to - holding on to regret is a way to control the grief, to keep it localized to “something you can grow from” instead of learning to release it, or just sit in it.