" sorry, I can't make it. it's my birthday that day"
2026-08-16 02:03:45
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LikeYourNameIsAnyBetter :
Don't go, and make plans with your brother so he doesn't go either.
2026-08-16 13:49:33
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Healixr :
As a twin myself, I would have spoken to my twin about it. Full stop.
2026-08-15 21:30:03
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arealparkbench :
this happened to a girl at my high school. I still think about it
2026-10-17 04:18:29
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!Wordy! :
They didn’t go, he didn’t ruin the surprise or anything just went radio silent for a bit and then talked to the brother the next day. The brother agreed it was rude. Later when they went to a dinner without the organiser, she just happened to turn up to the same bar with some random guys. The OP now thinks the brother is distancing himself from the organiser.
2026-08-16 04:48:08
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Gaia Goddess Fine Jewelry,LLC :
This is so rude. Even if you had two friends in the group who shared the birthday and were not related, this would be rude!!!
2026-08-15 21:39:02
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shayshay❤️ :
I’d be the asshole by telling him about the surprise
2026-08-15 20:07:19
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IamMz_Shey :
The girl who arranged this wants to look good in the eyes of his brother
2026-08-15 21:57:02
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penny lane 🇻🇪 :
I feel like there’s certain things you don’t do to twins and this is high on that list
2026-08-15 20:26:15
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ShazzyMoo :
Arrange to do something with your brother. He doesn’t know he’s supposed to be somewhere else
2026-08-16 05:23:59
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MissCJWillis :
My identical twin and I are both adults. If my friends threw a surprise party and treated my twin as a mere guest and not equally honored, I would be p*ssed off! She would feel the same way if reversed. Unless you’re a twin, it’s hard to accurately describe the close relationship twins have. We will ALWAYS be a package deal.
2026-08-16 01:12:40
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Rsaotome12 :
this sounds so strange. never mind the organizer, but the other invitees are in the same friend group and no one else thought it weird to celebrate one and not the other? or suggest a combo dinner?
2026-08-16 03:54:27
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Shantelle :
I have a twin sister and i would actually be so pissed off if my friends threw me a surprise birthday party and not include her too 😐
2026-08-16 05:19:46
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OgreTusk :
Invite your brother to somewhere else and tell him why
2026-08-15 20:08:19
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Nana :
Like you’re supposed to set aside your birthday and not celebrate because you’re celebrating his (your) birthday ??😭😭 They’re crazy
2026-08-15 22:20:55
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Willow Wren :
respond "sorry I have plans, it's my birthday"
2026-08-16 19:28:02
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Tom :
NTA. It’s weird. Do something fun for yourself on your birthday
2026-08-16 04:11:12
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apfelboo :
In a shared friend group? Weird.
2026-08-16 06:00:03
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🪕 :
why would you book it for 10 and invite 13 ???
2026-08-16 04:43:21
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Bridgett Rider :
Maybe it is actually a surprise for you too.
2026-08-16 20:27:37
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Miguel Valdez :
Has anyone thought about how his twin would feel to be the only one celebrated? It would make me feel terrible.
2026-08-16 17:28:55
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mrstorres1230 :
I’m the asshole because I would tell my twin the shit this girl is pulling
2026-08-16 14:29:33
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Lyndsay Peterson :
Unpopular opinion: YTAH. Everyone deserves their own birthday celebration. I’m not a twin but my younger brother’s birthday is 5 days before mine. There are also several more August birthdays in the family. They do a group August birthday party every year. I live 1,000 miles away now. My mom asked if I wanted to fly out to attend the party this year. I said no. I’m 36. By now she should know that I DO NOT share my birthday. Yes, it’s OP’s birthday too but I didn’t go to my friend’s birthday party on my birthday last year and insist that they make it my party too. That would be silly and entitled.
2026-08-16 06:04:29
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user2470012987812 :
Sadly, these “ friends” aren’t yours and they are cruelly letting you know
2026-08-16 11:44:51
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Lexi 🕊 :
This is a weird thing to do, they are twins. Even if you aren’t close with the other it’s for the both of them 😅
2026-08-15 21:19:05
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