@girlthepoet: #creatorsearchinsights If an avoidant is in no contact with you, do they still think about you? Very often, yes. Avoidant attachment doesn’t mean someone suddenly forgets you when the relationship ends. In fact, distance can sometimes make it easier for a dismissive avoidant or fearful avoidant to think about an ex because the emotional pressure, expectations, vulnerability, and responsibility of the relationship are no longer immediately present. During no contact, an avoidant ex may replay memories, check your social media, wonder whether you’ve moved on, compare new people to you, or romanticize parts of the relationship from a distance. They may miss you while still doing absolutely nothing about it. And this is where no contact becomes important. When you stop chasing, explaining, reassuring, checking in, or trying to convince an avoidant to choose you, they finally have the space to experience your absence. The person who once felt constantly available is suddenly no longer emotionally accessible. But remember: an avoidant thinking about you is not the same thing as an avoidant being ready for a healthy relationship with you. Missing you does not automatically mean they have healed their attachment patterns, developed emotional availability, or learned how to sustain intimacy. So if you’re wondering, “Does my avoidant ex still think about me during no contact?” the answer absolutely can be yes. Just don’t make their thoughts the goal of your healing. Let no contact bring the focus back to you. Keywords: avoidant attachment, avoidant ex, no contact with avoidant, does an avoidant miss you, avoidant breakup, dismissive avoidant, fearful avoidant, avoidant ex thinks about you, avoidant attachment no contact, signs an avoidant misses you, avoidant regret #AvoidantAttachment #NoContact #AvoidantEx #DismissiveAvoidant
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Saturday 15 August 2026 17:00:22 GMT
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vswx6uru19v3x :
There’s this woman Maya Ellison who wrote about attachment rules no one talks about, and the scary part is how accurate some of it feels… like she was describing things I never told anyone.
2026-08-20 19:58:33
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Viennstok :
It's comforting but not based on facts as per individuals it's a mass assumption. I would love to think he misses me but I do not know if that's a FACT.
2026-08-21 10:35:54
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xlimpinx :
They’re avoiding thinking about you.
2026-08-15 20:08:10
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Kori :
lol whatever
2026-08-17 05:42:58
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BlasphemousJackie :
Whatever, I met someone new who treats me like a queen! 👸
2026-08-17 17:42:32
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KS303 :
I’m not sure. He’s the one that went no contact. He walked away.
2026-08-17 04:36:39
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WJD :
My FA is now back with her ex! She told me she wanted to marry me before basically ghosting me a day later … the old, ‘I need to work on me’ line! She told me her ex cheated on her and when she found out, said it’s because they hadn’t been in love with her for years and hadn’t treated them well. I just don’t get it … she said I was the love of her life and now she’s back with someone she said she’d never truly loved. Life really does confuse me sometimes!
2026-08-15 18:26:49
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Layla🇲🇽 :
I live with him and everything was so great. Ready to propose and then one random day he does something wrong and he takes no accountability and broke up with me and he’s at his mom’s house now. Lying and saying he didn’t love me and he’s been wanted to break up????
2026-08-16 17:47:26
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Joy | Silver Hair Glow Up 📲 :
But they doooo do better because they are able to completely shut off any emotions and go on living their life like nothing ever happened 🙄
2026-08-16 20:18:11
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Aaliyah poole 🎀 :
This is our second time breaking up. The first time He left me for a whole month went to a whole other state and left me in our apartment. I was Blocked on everything and I was so devastated, after 4 weeks he reached out saying he missed me so so so much. That’s was two years ago and Now we have broken up again two days ago and I’m blocked again. I’m so sad. We’ve been dating 4 years and best friends 4 years before we got together. Ive known him almost half of my life and it seems so easy for him to not talk to me. He’s so avoidant.
2026-08-15 23:26:26
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y884iu477 :
There’s this woman Maya Ellison who wrote about attachment rules no one talks about, and the scary part is how accurate some of it feels… like she was describing things I never told anyone.
2026-08-20 19:58:33
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🪔VICKY1988🪔 :
How about:
a) block-unblock
b)block - unblock
c)block - unblock
BLOCKED again for the 4th time..it's a mental torture
2026-08-15 17:11:36
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user4773387310824 :
Our mutual friend said he brings me up constantly
2026-08-18 02:45:11
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Metro :
My ex-girlfriend, who has a fearful-avoidant attachment style, broke no contact after two weeks and asked me if I could lend her some money until the end of the month. She said that if I don’t want to do that, I shouldn’t message her anymore. I’m blocked on almost every platform except iMessage.
2026-08-15 17:06:22
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KARRI THE KOZMIC GANGSTAR :
this is comforting for this codependent empath
2026-08-16 08:15:21
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mellow michelle :
I dream about him a lot lately, it hurts tbh. I miss my home.
2026-08-17 22:37:51
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wooddweller🧝🏽♀️🌻🏕️🍄✨ :
I don't care. We shouldn't care bc time is passing and we have to move onward ! Fr
2026-08-17 04:05:04
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hg1mv18t4ety0 :
There’s this woman Maya Ellison who wrote about attachment rules no one talks about, and the scary part is how accurate some of it feels… like she was describing things I never told anyone.
2026-08-20 19:58:26
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Raymond :
Yes I did it's extremely difficult when there is a brutal dishonoring disgard
2026-08-15 19:52:02
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𝕊𝕒𝕣𝕒𝕙•°*” :
I was the one who initiated no contact and it was the best thing EVER! I planned it for months. Everything was always on HIS terms and I was so happy for something to finally be in my terms. I’m sure he didn’t see it coming, bc we never went more than like 10 days or so without talking. I hope he always wonders what happened. And I don’t need to or want to see him or hear from him again. Im so over it
2026-08-18 03:08:54
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Matty :
Trust me i highly doubt my name even crosses her mind. All her people had 8 hours or more with her during her shift. I had maybe if I was lucky and the planets were aligned a total of 30 minutes on my 2nd shift with her. Any other time… 15 minutes. So trust me… I’m not a thought that crosses her mind.
2026-08-18 05:16:04
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HiveMindSystem :
abusive attachment style
2026-08-17 19:28:55
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Dia✨ :
Lol, me and my avoidant ex be texting 😅 idk if this is good or bad.
2026-08-16 16:23:09
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hvh78 :
This is true. Here’s some proof: These texts are to me from my ex Avoidant’s sister, she texted to me a couple years after I was done with his emotional roller coaster.
2026-08-17 00:56:19
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