What if it is high school and I can’t move schools?
2026-08-16 15:18:29
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lyndsey.k.slaski :
True, but school season sometimes doesn't work that way. my daughter plays on an elite team for club vball, but plays at a small school for volleyball. she sees school as a practice. a time for her to perfect everything she needs for club. idk, we've struggled with the same points you posted. but...my daughter knows who she is and what she's capable of.
2026-08-21 03:06:06
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user4104311562382 :
What do goals have to do with friendship? True friendship is unique and it’s not based on goals
2026-08-17 14:05:20
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Willow🍒📣🥎 ⚖️🎭🎀🧶🍓☀️🫶 :
Your advice is actually truly amazing! I am going to try your tips as I am new to some sports I am doing this year and I havent played since I was younger!
2026-08-25 00:20:24
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Alyssa :
my daughter and I had this conversation! she moved softball teams, and is currently pushing herself to make friends with similar mindset! i am showing her this so it's not just something mom says. thanks for this
2026-08-21 14:18:48
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DIY :
True for who you date too!!!!
2026-08-18 23:22:27
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TukkerTon :
You give a lot of good advice, and I do understand the 'big fish in a small bowl' analogy you're putting out here. I agree with it to a large extend. However, saying that if you are the only one chasing big goals in your friend group, you should get other friends is not great. If you outgrow a team, you should switch teams, sure. Because the main goal of the team is the sport you play. But that is not the main goal for friendgroups. The main goal of friendgroups is just that, friendship. I'm not friends with my buddies because they are anything in particular. I am friends with them because I love them, and know that they'll have my back no matter what, and I'll have theirs, no matter what. Don't advice young people to leave their friends behind because they don't have similar ambitions. Being a great athlete can be lonely enough as it is. Besides, good friends keep you grounded.
2026-08-16 15:24:28
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THLivengood :
Your content is so good.
2026-08-17 02:58:45
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Ismael Perez :
Hard but true
2026-08-17 02:20:42
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DSD.monteyne.29 :
What if you in a team that your the best in the team but are also the team captain and manager still pushed you till the max?
2026-08-17 07:04:30
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axionvisuals :
PREACH!!!! 💯
2026-08-17 04:15:40
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GW :
Love these messages 💯👏💙
2026-08-20 07:57:53
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Sarah Rosado :
So proud that we can say that we are walking this talk - moving teams and schools for my kid to keep moving with people who push his standards!! I have never seen him so happy 🥰
2026-08-16 17:00:48
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BearDaKing :
Pov ur team is on a 5yr steak and ur the best so you leave the team
2026-08-16 15:43:28
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Marlon 2.0 :
don't leave your friends support them what the fuhh u on about. don't leave ur friends
2026-08-19 16:56:45
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Julian Ochoa :
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2026-08-18 01:23:11
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2026-08-17 12:15:11
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Heather :
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2026-08-16 19:19:10
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2026-08-17 01:59:05
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2026-08-21 00:40:23
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