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Silentcode19 :
Baba, I think this might be one of the hardest messages I’ve ever had to write to you, because for the longest time I kept convincing myself that somehow, some way, we would find our way back to each other. I kept holding onto that little bit of hope because letting you go completely felt like accepting that four years of my life, four years of loving you, choosing you, fighting with you, forgiving you, laughing with you, making memories with you and imagining a future with you had really come to an end. Even after two years apart, a part of me still looked at you as my person. Maybe that sounds stupid after everything that has happened, but feelings don’t disappear just because a relationship ends. Sometimes the relationship ends long before the love does, and I think that’s what made moving on from you so difficult for me. I’ve spent so much time thinking about what I could have done differently. I’ve replayed conversations in my head, remembered arguments I wish I handled differently, thought about words I wish I never said and moments where I wish I had loved you better. There were times when I blamed you, times when I blamed myself and times when I blamed everything around us. But eventually you reach a point where you realise that constantly searching for someone to blame doesn’t change what happened. We were young, we made mistakes, we hurt each other, we loved each other, and somehow through all of that we became a massive part of each other’s lives. I’ll never pretend those four years meant nothing just because we didn’t get the ending I wanted. I think one of the hardest things for me to accept is that sometimes you can love somebody with everything inside you and still have to let them go. Love doesn’t always mean holding tighter. Sometimes loving somebody means accepting that you cannot keep asking them to choose you. I’ve tried. Allah knows how much I’ve tried. I’ve swallowed my pride, opened my heart, said things that made me feel completely vulnerable and held onto hope longer than I probably should have. And I don’t regret loving you like that because at least I know I didn’t walk away wondering whether I could have tried harder.
2026-08-22 08:00:34
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DT :
nothing hits harder than finding yourself asking God to help you in stopping to love someone because you can clearly see that they are not there anymore.
2026-08-16 16:41:21
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Mr Granddad :
I feel the exact same way, her choices cost me who I was and someone I love "her".
2026-08-22 20:43:16
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exodus_sa :
Hey Love.i hope that one day you realise I was trying to be a perfect man for you,I hope you’ll realise that I’ve owned my mistakes to be a better version for you and our daughter.i hope that one day you’ll realise that all along i only wanted the truth from you,I already knew what happened,I never thought that you’d keep the lies and think that not telling me the truth would make things better,but i already knew.only wished you could be honest.but I’m choosing myself now,i choose you many times while you did the opposite.but never forget that I’m not angry or mad at you.I’m learning to forgive myself for allowing you to hurt me.but hopefully in another universe,my variant did married you,achieved our goals,and had all beautiful children we wanted,taking care of you and to explore the world😪🌹
2026-08-22 22:34:45
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Progress :
Waking up everyday choosing someone that doesn’t choose you, trying to be the most perfect partner to someone that doesn’t even notice your presence, really hurts 💔 but such is life some people will hurt you some people are not meant to stay in our lives forever, even the ones we truly love. But at the end of the day one must choose themselves. Cause the most important person to you must be you. Your happiness comes first. Acceptance is key
2026-08-16 16:51:26
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ketelo_k :
mthako o kwele bohloko💔 and most of us go through this💔
2026-08-16 10:36:22
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🐝🫦 :
There's men who still have so much love 🥺
2026-08-16 17:03:10
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Bunny@RSA :
the thing is you can never truly let go. sometimes at random hours you'd get random thoughts of how you could have played it better, find a way to make things work.😁
2026-08-17 13:34:53
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Thebsi :
I think i will send him a link to this before I block him
2026-08-16 11:14:23
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Nomusa :
Sent 2 sentences he immediately called 3tyms i ignored the calls and texted i have nothing left to say.I love myself too much to write such a long paragraph to someone who treated me like bull asoze.
2026-08-16 23:40:06
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Zulu_Samurai🫅 :
"Knowledge is for the head but understanding is for the heart" sadly the heart often refuses to accept what the mind already knows.
2026-08-16 20:17:25
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Fanie Rasuba :
I once felt like this and it took me a while to get over it but now I am in a good space..Right person will come by don’t give up
2026-08-16 20:52:25
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@I'mHim :
If you're chasing after someone it means they're running away from you
2026-08-16 16:13:43
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PerfBeatz :
all of a sudden we have become a generation that fumble each other in love
2026-08-16 23:54:05
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𝓜𝓲𝓼𝓼 𝓜𝓪𝓴𝓪 🩵 :
People who are saying he used ChatGPT, I guess that doesn’t matter. This message means a lot to many so that we can open our eyes and see if we’re worthy this pain. We are being taught to let go in the hardest times if that person doesn’t value you. We’re being taught to go where we are chosen not to chase after pain. Let it go my brothers and sisters. Let that burden off your shoulders please 😭🙏🏾. Pray always one day you will get allocated by grace and the right one will come. No one knows the right strategy of love. Love has no formula. Love hurts. Love is sweet. Love pains. Some of our fellow brothers and sisters are 6ft inches deep because of love 💔. Either abused, murdered or suicidal cause. We’re still saddened but we can’t do anything to bring them back but we have to learn from that and walk in the right direction. Let’s learn to love ourselves first before trying to love others. That’s how we can make good decisions about our lives. I still advise advise you all to go where you are valued . Please 🙏🏾
2026-08-17 04:51:27
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TROIT. :
😭why do they look similar??
2026-08-16 15:58:50
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Heart :
Someone else on the other side of the world feels exactly like I do, and it’s so sad that we both find ourselves with people who hurt us,yes we learn a new thing about ourselves but at the cost of our sanity,Yes I never stop trying and it just so happens that I find my heart staying behind for the potential that will never ever resurface again and what good does that do for me bcz I can’t even put myself to hate them, I really do want the very best even though it’s not with me
2026-08-17 02:13:49
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jackie_nzeleni :
🥹😭😭💔Oh I felt this message yho! went through this months ago🥹 and I still think of him🥹 letting go is hard ey💔
2026-08-16 12:11:10
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Cath :
walking away is respecting yourself when they won't walking away is not allowing yourself to abused anymore walking away is an act of love to yourself
2026-08-16 18:25:22
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unknown :
Sunday night am writing this l want to separate with my partner. l tried everything to save our relationship but nothing work. l put her first in everything l do but l never get the favor back. it took time for me come to this point but l think am ready to try and let go. l don't want to lie l truly love loya girl ngenhliziyo yami yonke but l think both of us love left us months back we are now stuck in this relationship with no way forward. am scared but l must let her go.. she needs better and may god bless her with people that will love her the way she see fit. she not to blame for this breakup, l had my fair share of problems that got us here kodw l still pray to god ukuth maybe by chance to give our relationship a 3rd chance ngob ngiyamutsandza and l see myself with her😭
2026-08-16 21:31:11
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