@el.b.s_: August 15th, 2026💔 If anyone were able to prove things wrong, that this all powerful god I’ve believed in is still real, please tell me. I never thought I’d start to feel this type of way. #deconstruction #deconstructingchristanity #christian #agnostic #religion
Rhett and Link from Good Mythical Morning did a great series on their deconstruction on their podcast Ear Biscuits. They go in to a lot of their journey through it, maybe it'll comfort you?
2026-08-16 09:30:32
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PapaTodd Gen ❌️ :
congratulations and welcome
my wife and I are deconstructing and I have never felt so deceived and betrayed yet so free the support on here is fucking amazing 👏
2026-08-28 03:34:14
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Eddie HD :
Just wait until you have every Sunday off! It’s so nice.
2026-08-16 11:51:58
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Second Best :
keep asking questions. if someone tells you to stop asking questions, ask more. best of luck
2026-08-16 07:13:58
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Deely :
the best deconstruction tactic is to read the bible. no sermons, no oucking perfect verses, just your own thoughts with the actual words. (all "eyewitness" accounts of Jesus are at least 40 yrs AD.)
2026-08-16 17:24:04
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dani :
My favorite factoid I learned during my deconstruction is that Noah is not unique. Every river valley civilization has a flood myth, because floods are among the most important events they experienced. Not because a global flood happened, but because their "world" is smaller than ours
2026-09-09 09:59:42
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VanityOfEliCLee :
also we have literal proof that if a species is so endangered that there is only one male and one female left, that species will go extinct, not just because of numbers, but the lack of genetic diversity too.
2026-08-16 06:36:54
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Forrest Valkai :
Congratulations! This is a huge step towards freedom! Please let me know if I can be of help. I host live call-in shows on a YT channel called The Line almost every week, and I post videos debunking creationist content and teaching biology on my own channel. Never stop learning!
2026-08-17 19:22:22
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Nebula :
Proud of you, don't let people on here bully you out of it.
2026-08-17 03:59:04
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brenzmarieking :
Hiiiiii YAY!! My Channel is God is Grey on YouTube and it's still there to help xo you're about to be so happy
2026-08-16 23:25:36
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Sabina🧶💙 :
Please be kind to yourself during this process and do not feel bad if you have to pause at any time. It’s a hard thing to process, some days you’ll feel like screaming from anger and feel heartbroken because life could have been so different but you’ll make it through and will have such a better outlook on life after
2026-08-16 14:00:25
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dcp3450 :
this is why you're taught not question, because once you do...
2026-08-16 11:20:29
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Whatsit Toyuh :
It’s scary!! It’s uncomfortable!! It’s WORTH IT! You’re setting yourself free. Life will be so much better 🥰
2026-08-16 12:37:08
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Nana🪷🪽 :
Girl this is what ive been going through
2026-08-16 01:34:23
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Sway ꩜ :
That’s really brave. I’ve never been religious, so watching religion and seeing it from the outside. I can SEE how hard it must be to be on this side. You’re incredible and brave and doing what a lot of others can’t do
2026-08-18 21:08:17
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LifeDividedByZero :
That can be a rough journey. Here's my advice: 1. Give yourself grace. Your actions were influenced by your trusted elders. It isn't your fault. 2. Learn the history of the Bible. All the major stories have a mythological predecessor from another religion. 3. Find a new community. Part of why people hang on to the church is because of the community. You still need A community, just not that one.
2026-08-17 12:01:28
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Thomas :
Something that might help you is a branch of philosophy called epistemology, which literally means "The study of knowledge." It deals with how we know things and how we can know things. It may help ground you after having so much fall apart.
Reality is still there, even if you had beliefs about it that weren't a good model for it. That's okay! There's no shame in updating your beliefs as you continue to learn. Good luck to you!
2026-08-16 06:12:19
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Ajax :
I am so proud of you! It's a big step towards a life that is free. It's scary, but there are ways out and through it.
2026-08-16 02:53:09
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Aaron 🍉 :
Welcome. And word of warning, you are going to go through this feeling a lot. These aha moments of "wait... that's not real either?". It's an emotional roller-coaster, but it's an amazing ride.
2026-08-16 09:55:34
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DrakeB2008 :
You will learn to see a lot of before and during flood genisis as metaphor
2026-08-16 00:43:25
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Angel :
I recommend a YouTube channel called no nonsense spirituality 🫂
2026-08-16 20:05:21
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faitheist :
He gets a bad rap but I found the God Delusion by Richard Dawkins to be a very accessible resource on all the primary arguments against the existence of god
2026-08-17 00:26:38
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Sara Walker :
Keep going! It will be hard but once you come out on the other side.. so worth it.
2026-08-16 12:47:51
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timothyhilt1 :
The hardest things about deconstructing for me was the realization that I was actually going to die someday, how my relationships changed with the Christians in my life, and shaking the shameful feeling that I ever believed that nonsense.
It's a journey, but a necessary one if you care about truth.
2026-08-16 15:39:24
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Bruhluh :
My deconstruction started about a decade ago, and paved the way for my reconstruction. Everything that I realized made no sense from my evangelical upbringing, makes so much more sense when looking at it through the lens of the Orthodox Church
2026-10-13 10:53:18
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