@unspokenthoughts_kea: (+2 UPDATES) AITA for refusing to fly across the country alone with our two young kids so my husband can go hunting before Thanksgiving? #reddit #redditstories #aita #fyp
He is the AH. Then you don’t fly for Thanksgiving. Or ask someone to fly with you. Make other plans things change but he is still acting single.
2026-08-18 12:46:20
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squeamishunicorn :
if one adult traveling with 2 small children isn't a problem, why doesn't he volunteer to take the kids along with him, have his mom watch them and allow his wife to fly in for Thanksgiving? 🤔
2026-08-16 06:12:56
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Jld6622 :
How does he not see that life and priorities change when you have kids??
2026-08-17 05:29:57
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Hell no :
sounds to me like he won every year, not the other way around.
2026-08-16 08:32:08
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Dolfinbby1 :
Let him handle the kids thru the airport and see what he says after that
2026-08-17 15:22:01
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Erin Blythe Davis :
I’m so glad my partner doesn’t hunt bc this is so a thing, they prioritize it over everything. Hell no 😡
2026-08-17 14:38:03
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Queen Petty 105 :
Hubby selfish AF. And a bigger problem than Thanksgiving plans…
2026-08-16 03:06:14
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akmom :
It sounds like OP isn’t willing to bend, and she wants what she wants and REALLY doesn’t want to spend time with MIL. 2 kids isn’t that hard to travel with.
2026-08-17 02:24:23
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BlackFabvl :
Why can’t they go at the same time
2026-08-16 07:57:54
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Manzini. :
Let him take the kids and have a week to yourself.
2026-08-16 08:13:56
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b3ing.M3 :
let him take the older child
2026-08-16 19:33:20
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lord_bingus_of_hingus :
Hubs is v selfish, also wouldn’t it be more important to spend a holiday with your OWN family?
2026-08-16 04:24:39
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SerWillikerz :
Are you comfortable with letting your husband take the toddler with him and letting mil watch him for the hunting week, and you and the baby come for TG week?
2026-08-16 13:22:35
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Cosmic Monkey :
People need to realise things change when you have kids
2026-08-16 10:24:22
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gypsykeo :
Let that
2026-08-16 10:26:58
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Ash N’Ella :
My question is when’s the last time she saw her family bc there’s no mention of them? He’s really viewing it as an me vs them which is wild in this scenario. They need counseling immediately but she needs an exit strategy bc he has weapons & does not like her. He views her as an obstacle
2026-08-16 14:08:18
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brokentwig0 :
leave him - he doesn’t want to compromise o this he won’t compromise on anything. op is a married single mom.
2026-08-16 13:33:48
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GodsChildLoved :
Im playing devils advocate, but He has a side piece 😳 he is wrong, NTA
2026-08-16 22:02:05
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michaelwarner706 :
This may be husbands one thing but when you move that far away things change. He needs to realize that home is now in a different place.
2026-08-16 10:15:15
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greenthumb027 :
No he’s wrong. You now have kids and they are not only your responsibility.
2026-08-16 12:15:21
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Crashing :
Dump him
2026-08-16 09:14:58
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The Bear :
For those saying he's selfish, it looks like it's HIS ONE THING he get to do a year with his family and she is complaining? Due to my dad's work when we were kids, my mom would fly with all 3 of us JUST BY HERSELF a lot of the time because she had to and she never bitched about it.
2026-08-16 04:55:15
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Pane :
He doesn't see her or the kids as his family. That's why he's comfortable leaving her alone at EIGHT months pregnant.
2026-08-16 16:53:51
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Em♈ :
he's extremely selfish 😒
2026-08-16 15:16:16
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Britt :
Sounds like he views the kids and everything surrounding them as her responsibility and fault, even though I’m assuming she didn’t make the kids alone.
2026-08-16 17:46:08
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