Calm Mental Lab
Region: US
Sunday 16 August 2026 11:02:02 GMT
30953
729
36
101
Music
Download
Comments
The Perry :
since you worked with them for years,can you please tell me why do they go marry someone else? was it because they didnt care about you and chose that one out of love and satisfaction, she is better? safer? being a person who cannot agree to what they do is a punishment and that is why they go for someone that demands low? I dont get it I mean they RUN from closeness and intimacy, isn't this what hapoen in a marriage ultimately? so why not you? one more question,do they come back or circle back to you? or marriage is kind of keeping them away?
2026-09-28 20:26:12
0
Claire Bear :
What happened to the 20 years?
2026-09-28 04:21:20
0
RxBones :
No. Walk away, lick your wounds and find a healthy person. This will never work.
2026-08-16 14:12:33
41
sexsmith44 :
they are choosing this behavior at certain times. they can act normal around other people and choose not too around their wife. dont waste your time trying to fix an adult who doesn't care!
2026-09-18 23:51:44
9
Pam :
No! They don’t act like that with friends, coworkers, neighbors, etc. not getting excuse to act like that with me!
2026-09-17 22:49:47
10
user9021763989859 :
Well, that’s the dumbest thing I’ve ever herd
2026-08-16 18:05:08
11
Holly.M :
I see this as encouragement of keeping them on the pedestal that they already believe they’re on. Then what, when they say “too bad, move on” without any accountability or repair? Get ready for the deflection back to why you’re the full problem. It’s exhausting with constantly-moving goalposts and emotional whiplash.
2026-09-26 02:17:46
1
billydoug :
It’s like walking on eggshells all the time. Sucks. Run if it’s not too late.
2026-08-17 02:38:19
15
shellierenee33 :
So now we’re going to cater to the abuser? Water it down? No thanks.
2026-09-02 14:49:47
5
user5157802751281 :
Why do we always have to bend to them?
2026-09-20 00:51:04
4
Mr Angry :
Yeah. I tell her therapist she’s always on her phone. Therapist recommends “date nights”, no phones. We go to dinner, my phone is in the car. Hers, with her. Before we even order, she’s talking to her mother. Tell me how to be be non-critical…..
2026-09-02 08:50:47
1
matt :
You run… you absolutely run or kiss your sanity goodbye
2026-09-04 21:58:59
8
Dragonladyvikingmama :
Wow. I just refuse to talk to a grown man like a child. That’s why I’m about to be single again 🤷♀️
2026-08-18 20:56:08
5
Meemee :
Yeah.. NO. So basically saying we should praise him first for being the way he is then ask nicely for the bare minimum requirements in a relationship.
2026-09-14 13:51:51
3
J.Poe :
Should I confront her and tell her that she’s an avoidant??? I know what’s happening and I can see all the bs that’s happening
2026-09-05 05:49:01
1
jq :
you have to master no needs in a relationship.
2026-09-23 10:10:17
0
nunna1029 :
Treat them like a child? No thanks
2026-08-30 12:55:02
2
ghostriderz616 :
I dont have to say anything cause the comments say it all
2026-08-23 06:53:49
2
Zachattack78 :
next video please
2026-08-16 19:06:32
1
Two Cents :
What happens in a DA + DA relationship?
2026-09-07 05:41:04
0
jasongiles23 :
The only thing you need to take from this post is………. “RUN”. The avoidant will never try or compromise. It is always about them. So RUN!!!!!
2026-09-03 01:02:29
0
lifeinthefoodchain :
What does vulnerability mean within a relationship? It sounds like weakness.
2026-09-28 20:54:14
0
NotThatDeepTho 😭 :
Lmaols this is too funny so self abandon basically and floatees got it like goodbye ain’t nobody got time for that
2026-09-16 02:19:05
0
deedee deedee77 :
I do zero emotional labour I am very selfish I only consider myself and I do fine with them. They end up asking me when we can hang out cuz I offer ZERO info. But then again I don’t like intimacy either but I’m not avoidant I can talk about feelings if someone said I did something to make them upset. I don’t want to hurt anyone. So obvi my childhood trauma made me very private and it works. But if they are not consistent with me, I am WAY more busy that they start turning anxious 😂😂😂😂😂😂
2026-09-26 15:07:45
0
JubyZ :
It sounds like kissing their ass all the time
2026-08-16 13:37:45
14
To see more videos from user @calmlab.1582, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.
