Shay the They
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Sunday 16 August 2026 20:00:00 GMT
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blckmarilyn 𓂇 :
People are almost jealous of the harassment you face as well ..
2026-08-16 20:32:01
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Fashion Psychologist :
I wrote about dressing down as a form of safety in my book on fashion psychology… it’s a real thing. 😮💨
2026-08-16 22:05:38
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Vanessa :
The harassment in public is actually insane it’s like being famous without being famous
2026-08-17 02:27:29
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Meeks :
And the perceived expectations of lacking intelligence
2026-08-16 21:17:44
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Geto’s Beautiful Hair✨ :
Yes and omg why do people want to touch you all the time
2026-08-17 00:08:16
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akilmuga :
This is the true nature of humans and the blackpill. The grass isn’t greener on any side. It’s determined on nothing more but luck.
2026-08-16 20:56:08
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Kay :
this is especially true when you’re blonde!! men think anyone with blonde hair is doing it FOR THEM. they see no issue with crossing your boundaries cause they see the fact that you have blonde hair as sign that you are automatically ASKING FOR IT
2026-08-16 20:37:51
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Hmm :
I told male staff members I wanna be cremated when I pass and they argued me down because "you have such a pretty face." SIRS, Imma be d-e-a-d! And hopefully very old when it happens. Was told this at 23 years ago. Can't escape the entitlement even when we're no longer living.
2026-08-16 21:54:12
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Thatcrazycreditchic :
I got fat to solve this problem and now I have to lose weight for my health, can’t win smh 🤦🏽♀️
2026-08-17 00:53:03
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ashed_b🇭🇹 :
My god your brain is immaculate 😭😭😭
2026-08-16 20:04:51
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m ♡ :
The amount of times someone has blamed me for being harassed, assaulted, groped, followed, stalked, etc is insane. Or even worse when people are mad at me for “not appreciating men being attracted to me” when I share these instances - and that I’m too fiesty and angry for saying no
2026-08-16 21:05:43
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Goddess MoonshineDarling🌙 :
yup, people always touch/grab my boobs..Grandma tired
2026-08-16 20:42:34
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CherryCola888🍒⁷ :
lemme tell you something. The way men feel entitled to GROPE youuu.. to KISSS YOUUU AHHHHHH!!
2026-08-17 00:46:52
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Rima :
I just like looking cute. I don’t want hugs.
2026-08-17 16:20:03
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passion4muzik1 :
I have accepted that people will look. What I don’t like is people repeatedly touching me, especially in certain areas that are too intimate.
2026-08-16 22:36:50
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💓 :
especially if you dress well, apparently i was asking for inappropriate advances because i dressed nice 😭
2026-08-16 21:04:25
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sagetheastrologer77 :
and people almost want to punish you for being attractive bc they feel like your energy is disturbing. especially if you like to put effort towards your appearance
2026-08-16 23:29:04
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Brown Butterfly :
Marilyn Monroe was an example of this. People were unkind to her just because of her beauty. Her own husband would often mistreat her as well.
2026-08-19 17:50:45
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Aileen Stayce 🍒 :
People cross so many boundaries to get information on you that if it was towards someone else it would be considered creepy or weird… but since it’s you it’s ok.
2026-08-16 23:23:17
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dai ⋆˚𖥔⁀➷ :
people truly become obsessed. they start stalking, harassing, invading your privacy & personal space...the resentment & demonizing is so spot on too 😔
2026-08-16 23:33:30
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big lex :
Stg Your boundaries jus get ignored like Tf
2026-08-16 23:26:51
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Fangtastic Baby🧿🦇🖤 :
I wore a shirt that said “don’t touch” and someone still went out of their way to touch me. 🫠
2026-08-16 23:32:07
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Wellness and Confidence Coach :
Yes they keep saying Im trying to impress someone but im just being myself
2026-08-17 00:28:10
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Taz :
the dressing down part is so true... i had to stop going to work clean and presentable like it started with not doing my hair to letting my hair get greasy to not putting on deodorant because i thought maybe if i am just disgusting i will stop being percieved at all...
2026-08-17 14:45:25
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