@codells: Dad Goes Ghost After Important Doctor Appointment Post Op My dad is recovering well from his shoulder surgery, but is very unhappy about the being made to rest. He still insists on doing things himself and ignoring the doctors orders, but mom is keeping him in check so he doesn’t stifle his progress. We were tasked with bringing him to the doctor because he can’t drive, but once we got there he said he wanted to go in alone. Thinking that he couldn’t have pulled a fast one without a car, we let it happen. 1 hour later we realized we made a mistake.