"Don't be the thinker, be the experiencer" you just helped me figure out a major plothole in the comic im writing
2026-08-17 12:58:39
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Kurtis H. :
Watching narcissists find comfort in this is very disturbing
2026-08-17 18:28:29
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Noah Larabee :
Sometimes being emotionally intelligent means understanding that sadness isn’t a problem to be solved, but an emotion to be experienced as a human being. If we were happy every day of our lives, we’d lack the contrast to even know what happiness is. Stop telling me how to process my emotions, please.
2026-08-17 05:26:24
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the southern piano m :
But how can I practice to be more in the moment
2026-08-16 20:26:52
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D P :
Nothing feels like it is worth the effort to do.
2026-08-17 17:08:46
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KingKCruel4933 :
But I’m starting to enjoy being miserable
2026-08-17 03:12:13
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☆ :
people act like u can just lock in and get dumber or notice things less
2026-08-16 22:05:30
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Pumpkin :
It’s so weird how conscious I am of my emotions but how little control we have of them
2026-08-17 17:13:06
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CleanFreakCo. :
I feel called out.
2026-08-17 02:39:48
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beatrice_taylor :
Ocd specialists and journaling helps. Allowing yourself to experience jou and give yourself permission to be. Not good or bad just as you are
2026-08-17 07:27:02
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2fhxedja¥ :
This means for me stop being reactive, the more I’m able to breath the the tuff moments and be present the more I grow in health, confidence, and awareness.
2026-08-19 13:05:48
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cai.nextdoor :
Thisss
2026-08-19 12:45:32
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Zachary :
Jesus is the only way get a bible yall they are everywhere.
2026-08-17 17:48:00
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x_arachknight_x :
Maybe you’re a slave to your idea of yourself
2026-08-17 13:34:38
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Maria Mia ✨ :
Ohhhhhhhhh
2026-08-19 04:12:43
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theabsolute91 :
To think. To feel. To know. That is what makes us human. To say “feel less” is like saying “breathe less” or “blink less”. You say that an emotional intelligent person cannot break destructive cycles; but you are wrong. If you dig a hole, it’ll never fill up if you ignore the hole. We can’t ignore our problems via “living in the present”. As someone who feels and thinks a little too much than everyone around me, breaking out of cycles IS hard; but, at the end of the day, it is necessary. I do agree emotional intelligence comes with living in the moment as well; but you also have to solve yourself with your mind and body. Be the thinker and the experienced.
2026-08-19 10:58:41
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kevinstewart9392293 :
Kinda hard to un-notice
2026-08-17 10:06:16
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salhcode :
Conversations in the brain is not a sign of intelligence, it’s actually a sign of uncontrolled ego
2026-08-17 10:05:29
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user5015566677670 :
Thank you... Learning to "dumb ourselves", or calibration to our current environment, is a hard lesson to learn, and even harder to learn how to apply it.
2026-08-17 12:08:48
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Reedmess :
Yet there’s a point where no matter what you do good or bad, trying for years and years of trial and error nothing will fully work and maybe from time to time some things will ease the situation but it was never a problem it was just a way of function and I feel that I am there and the only way is through peace and love yet I still can’t reach that yet I haven’t given up but I’m still in misery
2026-08-16 23:57:27
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Swaggeringalways :
I’m already like this #yallgottacatchup
2026-08-17 13:25:12
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st4rgirl111 :
This is easier said then done especially with someone who has ocd u can say all u want to “be in the moment” and yet ur still stressed and now stressing abt being in the moment what helped me is understanding and giving room to the internal commentary and proceeding what u do no amount of calming or soothing urself will make the internal talk go away u must continue while it’s there even if it it’s intense or uncomfortable even if it doesn’t feel right messy or complete it’s all abt keeping it pushing and only then can u become unstoppable this is more stable and continuous bc u r no relying on the internal talk to stop it never will as long as ur alive but so does the continuing ! ⭐️hope this helps someone 😭🙏
2026-08-17 08:21:46
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flock :
to be miserable? bro I'm not trying to BE in general the fuh 😭😭😭😭😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹
2026-08-17 16:32:30
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3fifty0 :
Genuinely feels like I’m in too deep to even “dumb down”, people’s patterns are so similar and boring that even being around the people I used to have fun with feels like watching the same documentary over and over again.
2026-08-17 03:51:41
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