@nicolelizabethtse: If you have a highly capable mind aka high IQ, high processing speed, extremely analytical etc and that mind has taken you far, one of the hardest things to learn is that thinking harder is not always the answer. In an OCD rumination loop, anxiety creates uncertainty, uncertainty creates fear, and fear disguises itself as control: if I just think about this a little longer, analyze every angle, figure it out completely, then I’ll finally feel safe. You might even get a moment of relief which teaches your brain to do it again. One practice that has helped me is tabling it. I close my eyes and visualize a container. I put the thoughts, questions, and emotions inside of it, lock it, and give the entire container to Jesus and not because I’ve resolved it but bc I’m practicing not needing to. The work is learning to sit in the discomfort of uncertainty without reaching for control through more thinking. Sometimes the most powerful thing a powerful mind can learn is: I do not have to solve this right now…i can tolerate not knowing, i can surrender what I cannot control. #ocd #rumination #cptsd #anxiety #ocdrumination
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Sunday 16 August 2026 21:01:48 GMT
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eeltenaj :
So relatable. Being okay with uncertainty because ultimately life is uncertain and control is an illusion.
2026-08-16 21:58:03
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Monique :
Thank you so much for sharing
2026-08-16 23:07:41
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Melissa LaBak Robinson :
Oooohhh I love this I’m going to try tonight ✨TY ❤️
2026-08-17 01:42:07
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user817371887371873 :
It’s because you need to feel the anxiety. When u feel it you reduce the fear around it and so u change how u relate to it. Then once you’ve calmed yourself down you can use your prefrontal cortex to knit together an articulate solution which can serve as the cognitive layer. It’s more about calming the nervous down first
2026-08-16 21:23:48
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user817371887371873 :
What I would also say is sometimes a thought keeps reoccurring despite somatizing it first. In those instances I’d advice for u to argue from that position as their might be something it’s trying to tell u packed in all the rubbish it brings with it
2026-08-16 21:24:51
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cassie :
not topic of the video but your skin is insane
2026-08-17 19:50:31
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Iamthesheeeee :
Sis! Sorry to steer the focus but what’s the skin care routine or foundation ? Love the glow ✨🙏❤️
2026-09-05 11:52:58
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